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When The Devil Can't Get To You He'll Send A Narcissist And Use These 6 Tactics To Destroy You


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If the Devil Can’t Get to You, He’ll Send a Narcissist—6 Tactics He Uses to Destroy You

Why This Battle Feels Different

  • You’ve locked every door, secured every window, and set every alarm—but what do you do when Judas is already inside the house?
  • This isn’t just a difficult relationship; it’s a spiritual attack.
  • The enemy knows your weak points, and when he can’t reach you directly, he’ll send someone who already has the keys—a narcissist.
  • The tactics they use aren’t just harmful; they’re designed to steal, kill, and destroy.

6 Demonic Tactics the Enemy Uses Through the Narcissist

🔥 Confusion and Doubt

  • Gaslighting, twisting truth, and making you second-guess yourself.
  • You over-explain, over-apologize, and start believing if you “fix” yourself, things will get better.
  • Truth: God is not a God of confusion but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33).

💔 Emotional Wounds

  • They trigger past betrayals, insecurities, and pain, keeping you focused on hurt rather than healing.
  • Truth: God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3).

🌿 Bitterness and Resentment

  • They hurt you repeatedly, making unforgiveness feel justified.
  • But bitterness doesn’t trap them—it traps you.
  • Truth: Let go of all bitterness and forgive as Christ forgave you (Ephesians 4:31-32).

⚔️ Spiritual Confusion

  • They plant doubts: If God is for you, why are you still stuck here?
  • They twist scripture and use faith to manipulate.
  • Truth: Ask God for wisdom, and He will give it generously (James 1:5).

🚪 Isolation

  • They cut you off from friends, family, and support systems.
  • They smear your reputation, making it hard for others to believe your reality.
  • Truth: God will strengthen and uphold you (Isaiah 41:10).

🎯 Distraction from Purpose

  • They keep you entangled in chaos, draining your energy and burying your God-given gifts.
  • Truth: The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy—but Jesus came to give life abundantly (John 10:10).

How to Break Free

Pray – This is your greatest weapon. Ask God for strength, discernment, and protection. Exodus 14:14: “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”
Set Boundaries – Protect your heart, mind, and spirit from their influence.
Trust God’s Justice – Let go of revenge and control. God sees everything and will act in His perfect timing.

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