A Demonic Attitude is Not Just a Bad Mood

Not all bad attitudes are just personality flaws—some are deeply rooted in deception, control, and manipulation. In this episode, we uncover four demonic traits often seen in narcissistic behavior:

1️⃣ Deception & Manipulation (John 8:44) – Twisting reality to control and confuse.

2️⃣ Control & Domination (2 Corinthians 11:14-15) – Using emotional blackmail and fear to gain power.

3️⃣ Blame-Shifting & Accusation (Revelation 12:10) – Never taking responsibility and making you feel guilty.

4️⃣ Hypocrisy & False Righteousness (Matthew 23:27-28) – Hiding behind a facade of goodness while living in contradiction.

These behaviors are designed to weaken and control, but God exposes deception so we can step into truth. Once you see the truth, you can never unsee it.

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Have you been pleading with God to change that toxic person in your life, only to feel more frustrated and stuck? What if the real transformation God is working on is within you? In this episode, we’ll dive into:

• Why relationships are the enemy’s favorite battlefield
• What God may be refining in you through the struggle
• The power of forgiveness, patience, humility, and trust
• How Joseph’s story offers a blueprint for breakthrough

This isn’t punishment — it’s preparation. If you’re ready to stop feeling powerless and start walking in God’s purpose, this could change everything.

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Do you ever feel like you're constantly trying to keep others happy, even at your own expense? People-pleasing may seem like kindness, but when it comes from a place of fear or obligation, it can become a tool for manipulation — especially for narcissists. They sense when they can control you by making you feel responsible for their happiness.

In this episode, we’re breaking down the signs of people-pleasing and how to reclaim your power:

1. You feel overwhelming guilt when saying no.
2. You change your opinions to avoid conflict.
3. You take on problems that aren’t yours to fix.
4. You apologize even when it’s not your fault.
5. You fear disappointing others, even at your own expense.

If any of these resonate with you, know that you’re not alone — and you don’t have to stay stuck in this pattern. It’s possible to be a kind, caring person without being controlled. We’ll cover three powerful shifts to help you break free:

• Shift your mindset: Stop seeing people-pleasing as a virtue.
• Stop apologizing for things that aren’t your fault.
• Set boundaries and stand firm.

Setting boundaries can feel uncomfortable at first, and guilt may creep in. But remember — guilt is not from God. You have the right to protect your peace.

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Why does breaking a trauma bond feel so painful? You’d think that freedom would feel… free. That you’d walk away from the narcissist and instantly feel lighter, happier, and at peace. But instead, you’re feeling lost, confused, maybe even grieving a relationship that you know was toxic.
The truth? This pain doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means God is working. He’s not just setting you free; He’s breaking the chains that kept you bound in the first place.
In today’s podcast, we’re uncovering 3 undeniable signs that God is breaking the trauma bond—even if it doesn’t feel like it yet. We’ll also talk about what true freedom from a narcissist actually looks like, so you can stop second-guessing yourself and getting sucked back into a never ending toxic cycle.

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8 Demonic Ways Narcissists Mess with Your Mind

Ever feel like something is off in your relationship—like a hidden danger lurking beneath the surface? Narcissists use subtle yet devastating tactics to manipulate and control, leaving you disoriented and trapped.

• 🔥 Gaslighting: Making you doubt your reality.
• 🎭 Emotional Manipulation: Using guilt and fear to control you.
• 🚪 Isolation: Cutting you off from support systems.
• 🔄 Mixed Messages: Keeping you confused and dependent.
• ⚠️ False Accusations: Shifting blame onto you.
• 💔 Love-Bombing & Devaluation: Creating an emotional rollercoaster.
• 🚫 No Accountability: Dodging responsibility at all costs.
• 😨 Fear & Intimidation: Keeping you walking on eggshells.

A Spiritual Battle for Your Mind

Narcissists target your mind because the enemy knows that everything begins there. If they can create confusion, self-doubt, and spiritual disconnection, they’ve succeeded in controlling you.

But here’s the good news: You don’t have to stay stuck. Recognize these tactics for what they are—tools of the enemy—and arm yourself with the truth of God’s Word.

Want to go deeper? Watch my video on “The Signs That Prove Narcissists Are Controlled by Demons”

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If the Devil Can’t Get to You, He’ll Send a Narcissist—6 Tactics He Uses to Destroy You

Why This Battle Feels Different

• You’ve locked every door, secured every window, and set every alarm—but what do you do when Judas is already inside the house?
• This isn’t just a difficult relationship; it’s a spiritual attack.
• The enemy knows your weak points, and when he can’t reach you directly, he’ll send someone who already has the keys—a narcissist.
• The tactics they use aren’t just harmful; they’re designed to steal, kill, and destroy.

6 Demonic Tactics the Enemy Uses Through the Narcissist

🔥 Confusion and Doubt

• Gaslighting, twisting truth, and making you second-guess yourself.
• You over-explain, over-apologize, and start believing if you “fix” yourself, things will get better.
• Truth: God is not a God of confusion but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33).

💔 Emotional Wounds

• They trigger past betrayals, insecurities, and pain, keeping you focused on hurt rather than healing.
• Truth: God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3).

🌿 Bitterness and Resentment

• They hurt you repeatedly, making unforgiveness feel justified.
• But bitterness doesn’t trap them—it traps you.
• Truth: Let go of all bitterness and forgive as Christ forgave you (Ephesians 4:31-32).

⚔️ Spiritual Confusion

• They plant doubts: If God is for you, why are you still stuck here?
• They twist scripture and use faith to manipulate.
• Truth: Ask God for wisdom, and He will give it generously (James 1:5).

🚪 Isolation

• They cut you off from friends, family, and support systems.
• They smear your reputation, making it hard for others to believe your reality.
• Truth: God will strengthen and uphold you (Isaiah 41:10).

🎯 Distraction from Purpose

• They keep you entangled in chaos, draining your energy and burying your God-given gifts.
• Truth: The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy—but Jesus came to give life abundantly (John 10:10).

How to Break Free

✅ Pray – This is your greatest weapon. Ask God for strength, discernment, and protection. Exodus 14:14: “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”
✅ Set Boundaries – Protect your heart, mind, and spirit from their influence.
✅ Trust God’s Justice – Let go of revenge and control. God sees everything and will act in His perfect timing.

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The "Nice" Narcissist: How They Fool You

Why They’re So Hard to Spot

• They appear charming, polite, and agreeable—making them seem like the last person who could be toxic.
• Their public persona is drastically different from who they are behind closed doors.
• They make you feel safe, lighthearted, and cared for—until they don’t.
• The truth? Nice doesn’t mean good—it doesn’t mean they’re godly, loyal, or trustworthy.

The Deceptive Traits of the “Nice” Narcissist

1. Selective Helpfulness
   • Their help seems genuine at first but later feels conditional—designed to keep you dependent.
   • Instead of empowering you, their “help” leaves you feeling emotionally drained and indebted.
   • They use kindness strategically—to be seen as the “good one” while keeping you reliant on them.
2. Performative Empathy
   • They know how to act empathetic—using the right words and body language to seem caring.
   • Their empathy is a performance, not genuine. They mimic emotions like an actor memorizing lines.
   • This creates a trauma bond—you keep waiting for the “real” them to show up, but they never do.
3. Strategic Support
   • They encourage you only when it serves their agenda.
   • Once your growth threatens their control, their support fades—or turns into subtle sabotage.
   • They make passive-aggressive comments like:
     • “Don’t forget who helped you get here.”
     • “Must be nice to have time for that while I’m doing everything else.”
   • Their support was never about you—it was about maintaining power and control.
4. Shallow Connection
   • They make you feel seen and understood at first, but their connection is always transactional.
   • They mirror your emotions and interests to create an illusion of intimacy.
   • But when you try to deepen the connection, they withdraw, deflect, or change the subject.
   • This keeps you chasing a connection they’re incapable of giving.

Why It’s So Hard to Walk Away

• The “nice” narcissist genuinely believes they are a loving, caring person.
• Their charm disarms you, their kindness hooks you, and their support keeps you reliant.
• They manipulate not with overt cruelty, but with subtle control.

How to Break Free

✅ Trust your discernment—If their kindness leaves you feeling confused or trapped, it’s a red flag.
✅ Set boundaries—Protect your emotional and mental space.
✅ Seek godly counsel—Turn to Scripture and trusted advisors for wisdom.
✅ Invest in transformational relationships—Choose people who show up consistently and genuinely.

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Have you ever felt like you're the only adult in your relationship? No matter how much love or patience you pour in, they just don’t seem capable of handling life maturely.

Maybe you’ve asked yourself:
👉 Why do they act this way?
👉 Is this narcissism? Or something else?

Emotional immaturity can look a lot like narcissism, leaving you confused and questioning what you're really dealing with. But here’s the good news—God is revealing their immaturity to help you respond wisely, without losing your peace, faith, or even the relationship.

Emotional Immaturity: A Child in an Adult’s Body

Dealing with an emotionally immature person is like reasoning with a child who hasn’t learned how to handle life’s challenges. They react impulsively—lashing out, shutting down, or blaming others—because they lack the tools to process emotions healthily.

While narcissists manipulate intentionally, emotionally immature people often aren’t trying to hurt you—they're just stuck in survival mode. And that distinction makes all the difference in how you should respond.

8 Signs of Emotional Immaturity

1. Blaming Others

They treat responsibility like a hot potato—constantly passing it off to someone else. Instead of owning mistakes, they say things like:
🗣 “If you hadn’t nagged me, I wouldn’t have forgotten.”

📖 Galatians 6:5 — “For each one should carry their own load.”

✅ How to Respond: Hold them accountable without taking the blame.

2. Emotional Rollercoasters

Their mood swings are exhausting—small issues turn into major crises, leaving you bracing for the next high or low.

📖 Proverbs 29:11 — "A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back."

✅ How to Respond: Stay grounded. Don’t absorb their emotions as your own.

3. Defensiveness

Every conversation feels like walking through a minefield. Even gentle feedback triggers excuses, counterattacks, or denial.

📖 Proverbs 10:17 — "Whoever heeds instruction is on the path to life, but he who rejects reproof leads others astray."

✅ How to Respond: Keep discussions solution-focused, not blame-focused.

4. Victim Mentality

They see themselves as the perpetual victim, blaming others instead of taking responsibility.

📖 Matthew 7:3 — "Why do you see the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log in your own eye?"

✅ How to Respond: Don’t get pulled into their narrative. Encourage self-reflection.

5. Silent Treatment (Stonewalling)

They shut down or withdraw when conflict arises, leaving issues unresolved.

✅ How to Respond: Don’t chase them. Address the issue when they’re ready to talk.

6. Impulsivity

Their emotions drive their decisions, often leading to reckless actions or regret.

📖 Proverbs 13:16 — "The prudent act with knowledge, but fools expose their folly."

✅ How to Respond: Encourage thoughtful decision-making with gentle questions.

7. Selfishness

The relationship revolves around their needs, leaving little room for mutual care.

📖 Philippians 2:3-4 — "Do nothing from selfish ambition… but in humility count others more significant than yourselves."

✅ How to Respond: Set boundaries that balance give and take.

8. Manipulation

They use guilt trips or victim-pla

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Have you ever wondered what happens when a narcissist targets a Christian? You’ve likely been hurt, manipulated, and maybe even discarded, and now you're left wondering, "Are they just going to get away with it?" My friend, stick with me, because in this post, I'm going to walk you through the three phases that every narcissist goes through when they have the audacity to attack one of God's children. We’ll cover what God is going to do to intervene and what YOU can do to ensure His justice is served in a timely manner. I assure you, they will not be able to handle what comes next….

There are three phases you can count on every time when dealing with a narcissist. These phases aren’t just predictable—they’re inevitable. But just as sure as the narcissist’s destruction comes, so does God’s intervention, and ultimately, His justice.

Narcissists are master manipulators and deceivers, agents of chaos who thrive on sowing confusion and destruction. It’s no surprise that their main targets are often Christians. Why? Because the loving, compassionate, and forgiving nature of a Christian makes it easy for a narcissist to exploit. But it goes deeper than that—they are being used by Satan to distract, derail, and discourage you from stepping into the fullness of what God has for your life.

So, stop being surprised that you’re a target. But don’t be afraid, because your weapons are far greater than theirs—if you know how to use them. We’ll get to that soon.

Phase 1: Narcissistic Destruction

First, understand that the narcissist's plan always follows the same pattern. Phase one? They zero in on their target. Whether their goal is your destruction or simply their personal gain, the strategy is identical—they present themselves as everything you’ve ever wanted. The ideal parent, the perfect partner—the answer to your prayers.

This is all designed to weaken your defenses, and it works. You let your guard down, you let them in. Sure, you see red flags, but you convince yourself it’s just a mistake or something you can work through together. And they’ll certainly give you that impression.

But soon enough, the mask begins to slip. They can’t keep up the façade and inconsistencies start to show. You start questioning their behaviors, their motives, and that’s when things shift. Suddenly, you’re either hit with an overwhelming dose of love-bombing, or they play the victim. Both tactics are meant to cloud your vision—to distract you from the real issues.

And isn’t that exactly how Satan operates? Everything is a carefully crafted illusion—beautiful at first, but dark and destructive beneath the surface. By the time you see the truth, you’re entangled in the web of confusion, manipulation, gaslighting, and invalidation.

Here is where you begin questioning your own sanity, doubting your worth. You start feeling guilty for how you reacted to their emotional abuse, ashamed of behaviors you’re not proud of, and left wondering if you’re the problem.

It’s like being caught in a tornado—everything seems calm at first, but once you’re in the center of the storm, the destruction becomes clear. Narcissists twist your mind, emotions, and sense of self-worth, leaving a path of destruction that is both internal and external.

But remember, the narcissist cannot maintain their illusion forever. Eventually, the storm takes its toll. Their love-bombing fades, the manipulation intensifies, and the gaslighting becomes unbearable. You’re left feeling trapped, confused, and powerless. They don’t just want to break your heart—they want to break your spirit.

Phase 2: God’s Intervention

But don’t fret, my friend. This is w