Does the question "why?" sometimes feel too strong or uncomfortable in English? In this episode, we talk about why "why" can sound rude in English and what you can say instead to keep conversations comfortable and natural.

You'll learn six gentle alternatives that help you ask about personal choices, life changes, and meaningful stories without putting pressure on the other person.

These simple questions make it easier to stay curious, build trust, and speak confidently in real conversations.

In this episode, you'll learn: • Why "why" can sound judgmental or demanding • How tone changes the meaning of your questions • Six natural, polite questions to use instead • Everyday examples you can try right away

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Episode Timestamps:

00:00 The Problem with 'Why'

02:40 Alternatives to 'Why'

03:06 What Brought You...

04:26 What Led You To...

05:41 How Did That Come About...

06:54 What Made You Think Of...

07:57 What Inspired...

09:20 I'd Love to Hear How...

10:50 Recap & Practice

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