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By Kara Ghassabeh
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In this episode, I'm diving deep into the complex world of wedding planning, particularly focused on the burnout many brides experience as they juggle their preparations alongside demanding careers and vibrant social lives.
The challenge of integrating wedding planning into already busy schedules can feel monumental, leading to exhaustion and overwhelm when trying to manage the myriad tasks involved. Many brides find themselves lost in a whirlwind of to-dos, from attending other weddings to engaging in group chats about wedding details, which can create a sense of chaos rather than progress.
I share practical tips to help couples navigate the planning process with ease. Creating timelines and setting milestones will help manage expectations and activities efficiently. I also discuss the necessity of delegation, especially for more mundane tasks, allowing couples to focus on the essential parts of planning that require their attention and emotional investment. This division of labor prevents burnout and ensures that the big picture doesn’t get lost amidst the details.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
Using time blocking for wedding planning
How toa void burnout in conversations
Delegating shallow tasks
Setting boundaries in wedding planning
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
In this episode, I delve into the often unspoken fears surrounding wedding planning, focusing specifically on the concept of worst-case scenarios.
After reflecting on a recent conversation with a bride, it struck me how commonly these worries manifest, creating an atmosphere of anxiety and stress for those preparing for what should be a joyous occasion. From concerns about unpredictable weather to familial tensions, the anxiety surrounding a wedding can lead to excessive spending and compulsive planning, detracting from the excitement of the event.
Walking through the worst-case scenarios allows us to strip away the layers of fear. What do you do if it rains? You create a backup plan. What happens if emotions run high on the big day? You learn to embrace those feelings instead of fearing them. This practice doesn't just mitigate anxiety; it fosters a sense of strength and stability as you prepare for one of life's most significant milestones.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
Confronting wedding day anxieties
Turning toward anxiety
Embracing solutions
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
In this episode, we dive into the critical concept of attachment in intimate relationships. This exploration is essential for anyone engaged or married, as understanding these dynamics lays the groundwork for healthier communication and conflict resolution in relationships.
We investigate the various attachment styles—anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and the sought-after secure attachment. Each style carries unique traits and implications, shaping how we connect with our partners and navigate the complexities of love and intimacy. It’s crucial to recognize how these styles can impact your relationship, often in unseen ways that require conscious awareness to address.
This episode serves as a gentle reminder to take time to investigate your own attachment style and that of your partner. Understanding and communicating these dynamics can profoundly affect the way couples interact with one another during pivotal moments leading up to marriage and throughout their relationships. Embracing this awareness can ultimately guide couples toward creating deeper and more secure connections with one another.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
The different style of attachment
How to seek self-awareness in relationships
Ways different attachment styles can work together
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
In this episode, we are talking about the crucial topic of selecting the right officiant for your wedding—something I’m surprisingly passionate about.
As someone who has officiated numerous weddings, I understand the profound honor and responsibility that comes with this role. It's essential to ensure that the officiant you choose aligns perfectly with you as a couple, capturing the unique essence of your relationship and the atmosphere you desire for your special day.
Your wedding ceremony should be carefully crafted to transcend the celebration itself. I stress how pivotal it is for the officiant to support you and your partner while gracefully fading into the background. This ensures that the focus remains solely on you and the love you are celebrating, rather than on the officiant's desire for attention.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
Finding professional officiants
The role of the officiant
The importance of personalizing your wedding ceremony
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
In this episode, I dive into the profound significance of breathwork. As we navigate the various stresses associated with wedding planning and the monumental day itself, I aim to guide you in finding presence and embodiment to fully savor the joyous experiences you've curated for yourself and your guests.
At the core of this transformative journey lies the simple yet powerful act of breathing—a tool that's always available to regulate your emotional state and reconnect with your body.
As we move through this episode, I invite you to engage in a gentle practice of following your breath. I guide you in observing the sensations of inhalation and exhalation, encouraging you to fully immerse in the experience, whether during moments of relaxation or as a grounding technique amidst daily activities. By focusing on the simple act of breathing, you may discover a profound sense of peace, allowing you to engage with life one breath at a time.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
Introduction to breathwork
The science and spirituality of just breathing
harnessing your breath for wedding planning
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
In this episode, I dive into the crucial concept of "visiting yourself," a phrase that surfaced during a unique dental experience I had. Amid the haze of laughing gas while undergoing a tooth extraction, I felt a profound disconnect from my body, which led to a sudden clarity: the need for individuals, especially brides, to reconnect with their authentic selves during the turbulent wedding planning process.
The wedding planning journey is often fraught with anxiety and societal pressure. For many women, the transition from being a woman to a bride, and potentially to a wife and mother, brings an overwhelming flood of external influences. It isn’t uncommon for brides to feel that their worth lies in achieving an unrealistic ideal, whether through aesthetic perfection or flawless event execution.
I explore how these pressures lead to a frantic pursuit of approval—from relatives, friends, and especially from the curated imagery on social media platforms. When caught in this cycle, it becomes all too easy to lose sight of personal instincts and desires, drowning in a sea of external expectations.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
The pressure of perfection
Reconnecting with your inner self
Grounding for joy
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
In this episode, I dive into the importance of flexibility, both mentally and physically. The call to "be bendy" encourages you to reflect on your body and your state of mind, promoting a lifestyle and mindset that embraces adaptability rather than rigidity.
I encourage you to examine your thoughts during challenging times. When faced with disappointment, such as a canceled vendor or unmet expectations, are you able to maintain a breadth of perspective? Or are your thoughts narrow and limited, locking you into a cycle of negativity?
By nurturing flexible responses—acknowledging a range of possibilities—we allow ourselves to experience and process emotions in a healthier way. It's about letting feelings move through us without feeling overwhelmed by them.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
What being bendy means
Building emotional capacity
Embracing fluidity in life
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
In this episode, I dive into the powerful concept of allowing life to be easy, encapsulated in the mantra, "Let It Be Easy."
The essence of this discussion stems from a realization that many of us, despite our intrinsic understanding that ease exists, become tangled in complexities and self-imposed pressures that obscure this truth. This conversation serves as a gentle reminder of the simplicity we can invite into our lives, particularly during challenging times such as wedding planning.
Ultimately, I invite everyone to ask themselves how they can let life be easier, whether that means leveraging technology or tapping into community resources. There is significant empowerment in rethinking the traditional narratives of hard work; embracing ease is not just a luxury but a necessity for a more balanced and joyful life.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
Challenging old beliefs
Rethinking hard work
Embracing community connections
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
In this episode, I’m excited to dive deep into the world of meditation and share insights that have truly transformed my practice over the years. I've often hinted at its importance in previous discussions, but it’s time to dedicate a full episode to this life-enhancing practice.
Meditation doesn’t demand perfection. It’s about exploration and gentleness, allowing you to arrive back at your anchor. I encourage you to set a timer, breathe, and observe whatever sensations arise, treating them with kindness. Whether your meditation practice varies from extensive, dedicated sessions to brief moments of mindfulness, the most vital aspect is its availability to you whenever you need it.
If you’ve ever felt hesitant about meditation—or if your attempts have felt like failures—this episode is designed especially for you. We’ll explore practical steps to help you get started, sustain your practice, or even reignite your passion for it.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
Embracing the journey of mediation
The power of kindness in a meditation practice
Eight tips to start meditating
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
In this episode, we explore the powerful concept of neutrality in relation to weddings, a topic that resonates deeply whether you're in the throes of planning your big day or reflecting on the aftermath of the celebrations.
As we delve into the often overwhelming nature of weddings—the intense emotions, high expectations, and societal pressures—we uncover how embracing neutrality can serve as a grounding force. This perspective allows for a more balanced view, helping individuals to navigate anxiety both before and after the wedding day.
Neutrality not only serves as an emotional anchor but also permits individuals to honor the various truths, emotions, and reflections that a wedding elicits.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
Neutrality in wedding planning
Embracing the messy middle
The power of neutral thoughts
Featured on the show:
Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/
Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.com
Let’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoaching
Get your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**
https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1
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