In this clip from Blackout, Ian Dunlap and Rashad Bilal have a candid discussion about who truly holds power in relationships—whether it’s the one who cares less, the one willing to walk away, or the one who’s more vulnerable. They examine the delicate balance of leverage, honesty, and emotional investment in both love and business negotiations.

Rashad shares his perspective on why applying a business-like mindset to relationships can be a losing strategy, emphasizing instead the importance of vulnerability and genuine connection. The conversation also delves into the “seesaw” of power in relationships, debunking the myth of equal power, and exploring how strength and care can coexist.

Ian and Rashad get real about cultural shifts, discussing how modern men have become more emotionally expressive, while women are taking on stronger, more assertive roles. They touch on the pitfalls of “crashing out” over heartbreak, why responsibility and leveling up matter, and why it’s crucial to avoid a scarcity mindset when it comes to money.

They also break down life lessons on reciprocity—why being cheap can keep you stuck, and how generosity and gratitude create abundance, not just in wealth but in relationships and community. Rashad makes it clear: Never trust a thief, and always uphold your moral code.

**Timestamps:**

0:00 - Does the person who cares less in a relationship win?

1:00 - Vulnerability vs. leverage in love and business

2:15 - The "seesaw" of power in relationships

3:30 - Men’s emotions vs. women’s resilience: Culture shifts

6:00 - Taking responsibility & moving forward after heartbreak

7:40 - Stop normalizing being cheap

8:25 - Scarcity vs. abundance mindset

9:45 - Power of generosity & reciprocity

11:00 - The moral code: Never trust a thief

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