The Secure Husband

Why Do I Always Second-Guess Myself?


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Do you feel like you’re always second-guessing yourself in your marriage? You walk away from conversations wondering if you said the wrong thing, set the wrong boundary, or made the wrong choice. Over time, that constant doubt makes you feel smaller, weaker, and disconnected from the man you want to be.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott explains why this happens and how to rebuild trust in yourself through The Secure Husband Process. You’ll learn where self-doubt comes from, why it’s often tied to old wounds, and how to lead with calm strength instead of fear.

What you’ll take away from this video:
✔️ Why men second-guess themselves in marriage
✔️ How childhood wounds create lifelong doubt
✔️ The cost of outsourcing your confidence to your wife’s approval
✔️ How to stop overthinking and start leading with clarity
✔️ Practical steps to build self-trust without arrogance
✔️ How to speak your truth without apology or collapse

You don’t have to live in constant doubt. You can become a man who trusts himself, even when things aren’t perfect — and that shift changes everything in your marriage and your life.

👉 Want to talk about what’s happening in your marriage? Sign up for a free 30-minute consultation at securehusband.com
. No sales pitch. No pressure. Just an honest conversation about what’s happening and how coaching might help.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.


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