The Secure Husband

Why Do I Self-Sabotage Right Before Success?


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Do you ever pull away when things finally start to go right? Maybe your marriage starts improving, your business gains traction, or you feel more confident than ever — and then you suddenly check out, pick a fight, or quit. That’s self-sabotage. And it’s more common than you think.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott explains why men often destroy their progress right before a breakthrough — and how to stop running from success. You’ll hear the story of one coaching client who rebuilt his marriage, confidence, and peace… only to sabotage it all when it started working. Then, using The Secure Husband Process, he discovered what he was really afraid of — and learned to trust himself instead of his fear.

You’ll learn:
✔️ Why men fear success even when they say they want it
✔️ How your subconscious confuses peace with danger
✔️ What childhood conditioning teaches you about “staying small”
✔️ How to stop ghosting your own progress when life gets good
✔️ Why self-sabotage is about control, not failure
✔️ The six Secure Husband steps to rebuild trust, courage, and consistency

You’re not weak. You’re not broken. You’re scared — but you don’t have to stay that way. This episode shows you how to face success with strength and calm leadership, not fear.

👉 If this resonates, sign up for a free 30-minute consultation at securehusband.com
. No sales pitch, no pressure — just a real conversation about what’s happening in your marriage and how coaching could help.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.


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