Really? What’s up with that?
Simone, a single mom in her 40s, wrote to the Love Letters advice column asking, “Why don’t men on dating apps ask me any questions?” Simone said these men are happy to answer questions about themselves, but they don’t ask anything in return.
That means Simone has to do so much work to keep the conversation going.
Simone tells her story to Meredith, who also gets feedback and context from experts who study curiosity and the art of asking questions. They include Todd Kashdan, director of the Well-Being Laboratory at George Mason University.
He helps Meredith examine the gender piece of it all, the cultural influences, and why asking questions is a beautiful skill – and, perhaps, a lost art.
Remember, Love Letters is an advice column that LOVES questions. Do you have something on your mind about your relationship life? Email it to [email protected] or visit boston.com/loveletters.

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