Some times there isn't available SPACE in the body to bring in new emotions, before you clear the old ones out. That is why sometimes no matter how hard you try you have to change your mood, be grateful, think new thoughts, you have to accept moving through the uncomfortable emotions as a part of life and the road to more joy and freedom.
This heaviness is often feelings of loneliness, depression, or melancholy.
Know that EMOTIONAL EMBODIMENT is your key to freedom.
Today I give you a deep inside look into my own personal life, experience of depression and hopelessness and how changing my relationship to alcohol informed how I show up for my life and process my emotions.

You will learn:
Emotions have information.
When your ego is trying to take over.
How to feel on purpose.
Why alcohol can be a great problem to have.
How to feel hard emotions without taking it personal.

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I created something special waiting for you inside the Community.

It’s called The Permission Protocol —
 a five-part journey to help you rethink everything you believe
about the pleasure that’s possible in sobriety-

The best part is, it’s entirely free to you. JOIN US HERE!

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DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

Alcohol is the solution to the problem of drinking. Say what?!?
When you get to this place, your dopamine reserves are always dipping below your baseline, creating a deficit.  This robs you from the  pleasures of natural dopamine rewards from things like hugs, food, cooking, dancing, playing, community and exercise.
Places where you once found meaning.
Places where you found purpose and pleasure for pleasures sake.
It wasn't always a hike AND a micro brew.
No that you KNOW what's happening in your body, you can find out where you are stacking pleasure and do one thing at a time.
Focus.
Stop multitasking.
Stop eating AND watching TV.
Stop scrolling instagram while you are helping your kids with their home work.
Does a cozy evening need to be cozier with a hot toddy?
Why are you drinking? Exhausted by abundance but yet we can't just chill.

Being present with the pleasure of pursuing the things you enjoy is where you find your purpose.

In today's episode I discuss:
What does  PURPOSE mean and how do you find yours?
How to use your purpose to stop over indulging.
Where your attention goes, dopamine flows. You only have so much. How are you using your most motivating neurotransmitter?
Why your life might seem dull and meaningless without alcohol.
How to change your relationship to alcohol and have a steady long lasting joy VS. short term pleasure that has no benefit.

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Check out this deeper science explanation on The Huberman Lab Podcast, it's a game changer. 

I created something special waiting for you inside the Community.

It’s called The Permission Protocol —
 a five-part journey to help you rethink everything you believe
about the pleasure that’s possible in sobriety-

The best part is, it’s entirely free to you. JOIN US HERE!

🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back

Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe!

NEW Free Mini Course: The Permission Protocol-a five part journey to help you rethink everything you believe about the pleasure that is possible in sobriety and the radical freedom that it requires to get to the other side.

It's all inside of the Free, Off Social Media Wild Sobriety Community. Join HERE!

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

My wonderfully graceful client, Paula, learned that the only way to change, was to first admit what was wrong. Paula found herself and on the other side of the empty nest and was experiencing a transition in her purpose and identity.  The emotions became easier to avoid with wine, until the wine became the real problem. Changes in life create new thoughts and new emotions, especially when those changes affect the core of who you are and how you relate to life. In essence , they trigger the fight or flight mode.  The nervous system isn't regulating, hormones and chemicals are shifting and you are figuring out a new way to survive. 

Wine seemed like the familiar quick fix and a little pick me up to process the day to day.
Until the desire for it starts to our weight the discomfort of the initial problems it was solving.
Paula's couragousness to come clean to herself about the fear of changing her relationship to alcohol, was the first step.
Loving herself, the second.
And staying committed to a new way, the third.
Hear her incredible journey and all of the stress she was able to relieve just from NOT drinking.  And about the permission she was able to give herself to enjoy peace for a job well done.
Thank you, Paula, you are truly amazing. xxoo

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Thank you for heading to Apple Podcast To Drop a 5 Star Review and What You LOVE about the show! Your presence means so much to me. 

I created something special waiting for you inside the Community.

It’s called The Permission Protocol —
 a five-part journey to help you rethink everything you believe
about the pleasure that’s possible in sobriety-

The best part is, it’s entirely free to you. JOIN US HERE!

🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back

Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe!

NEW Free Mini Course: The Permission Protocol-a five part journey to help you rethink everything you believe about the pleasure that is possible in sobriety and the radical freedom that it requires to get to the other side.

It's all inside of the Free, Off Social Media Wild Sobriety Community. Join HERE!

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

Awareness is always the first step to a new relationship to alcohol.
New knowledge and a new perspective is KEY to NEW results.
If you can't clearly see where you ARE, you can't clearly see a new possibility.
Learn how to grow your awareness in today's episode.
What don't you know?
What haven't you thought of?
What thoughts do you believe that aren't serving you?
What are your thoughts?

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Thank you for heading to Apple Podcast To Drop a 5 Star Review and What You LOVE about the show! Your presence means so much to me. 

I created something special waiting for you inside the Community.

It’s called The Permission Protocol —
 a five-part journey to help you rethink everything you believe
about the pleasure that’s possible in sobriety-

The best part is, it’s entirely free to you. JOIN US HERE!

🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back

Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe!

NEW Free Mini Course: The Permission Protocol-a five part journey to help you rethink everything you believe about the pleasure that is possible in sobriety and the radical freedom that it requires to get to the other side.

It's all inside of the Free, Off Social Media Wild Sobriety Community. Join HERE!

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

You already have all of the tools you need for change. First you need to become aware of them, understand how they can be applied to alcohol and stay inspired enough to use them.
In today's episode I will highlight the five qualities that you already posses that will support your success in the process of chancing your relationship to alcohol.
The first thing you are doing right is listening to this show!
Stay curious and open minded.
Become the authority of your own life.
Offer yourself great compassion.
Honor your wisdom.
You've got the right stuff!

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Thank you for heading to Apple Podcast To Drop a 5 Star Review and What You LOVE about the show! Your presence means so much to me. 

I created something special waiting for you inside the Community.

It’s called The Permission Protocol —
 a five-part journey to help you rethink everything you believe
about the pleasure that’s possible in sobriety-

The best part is, it’s entirely free to you. JOIN US HERE!

🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back

Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe!

NEW Free Mini Course: The Permission Protocol-a five part journey to help you rethink everything you believe about the pleasure that is possible in sobriety and the radical freedom that it requires to get to the other side.

It's all inside of the Free, Off Social Media Wild Sobriety Community. Join HERE!

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

In today's episode, I speak to my brave and witty client about her transition from feeling powerless and divorced from spirit through compulsive behavior, to discovering the power of choice and the freedom of deciding not to be broken.
Jessica shares her journey from a 12 step model of needing to prove she was 'good' to owning her authenticity and continued growth  in 1 on 1 coaching. This courageous mother of two, shares her  wisdom of transitioning away from the daily desire to check out, to welcoming in growth through chaos.
She also shares her perspective on what coaching with me is like and how it opened the door to a new way of life through the lens of possibility.

Schedule a complimentary alignment session:  HERE

Thank you for heading to Apple Podcast To Drop a 5 Star Review and What You LOVE about the show! Your presence means so much to me. 

I created something special waiting for you inside the Community.

It’s called The Permission Protocol —
 a five-part journey to help you rethink everything you believe
about the pleasure that’s possible in sobriety-

The best part is, it’s entirely free to you. JOIN US HERE!

🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back

Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe!

NEW Free Mini Course: The Permission Protocol-a five part journey to help you rethink everything you believe about the pleasure that is possible in sobriety and the radical freedom that it requires to get to the other side.

It's all inside of the Free, Off Social Media Wild Sobriety Community. Join HERE!

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

Whenever you undertake a new project, have a baby, start a job hunt, learn a new skill, there is preparation and dedication required. There is adjusting your schedule, shifting your priorities, waking up earlier and doing the work until you have the result you want. Changing your relationship to alcohol via your relationship to yourself is no different. You have to set the stage and create a container that will  support you, inspire you and guide you through the work and through the hardest of times and an opportunity to celebrate your successes! Investing in self discovery is the best investment of your life time, it is one where you are always in control of the results.

You can't change if you don't change how you are doing things and showing up for your life.
During this 5 part series,  I will teach you the five biggest mistakes people make when trying to quit drinking alcohol, how to recognize it, what to do different and how have some fun!
Don't miss all 5, It's a game changer.

Learn how to respect your own decisions before trying to please others: Schedule a complimentary alignment session:  HERE.

Thank you for heading to Apple Podcast To Drop a 5 Star Review and What You LOVE about the show! Your presence means so much to me.

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Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe!

NEW Free Mini Course: The Permission Protocol-a five part journey to help you rethink everything you believe about the pleasure that is possible in sobriety and the radical freedom that it requires to get to the other side.

It's all inside of the Free, Off Social Media Wild Sobriety Community. Join HERE!

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

How to stop caring what other people think about you drinking. (hint: they don't)
Your relationship to alcohol is no one else's business but your own.
The fourth mistake people make when trying to quit drinking is trying to read other peoples minds. When you are all in on a choice you have made, you care little about what other's think. Work on your own beliefs about alcohol first and then other people will follow suit, you also won't care if they do.
During this 5 part series,  I will teach you the five biggest mistakes people make when trying to quit drinking alcohol, how to recognize it, what to do different and how have some fun!
Don't miss all 5, It's a game changer.

Learn how to respect your own decisions before trying to please others: Schedule a complimentary alignment session:  HERE.

Thank you for heading to Apple Podcast To Drop a 5 Star Review and What You LOVE about the show! Your presence means so much to me.

I created something special waiting for you inside the Community.

It’s called The Permission Protocol —
 a five-part journey to help you rethink everything you believe
about the pleasure that’s possible in sobriety-

The best part is, it’s entirely free to you. JOIN US HERE!

🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back

Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe!

NEW Free Mini Course: The Permission Protocol-a five part journey to help you rethink everything you believe about the pleasure that is possible in sobriety and the radical freedom that it requires to get to the other side.

It's all inside of the Free, Off Social Media Wild Sobriety Community. Join HERE!

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

Alcohol Is Queen and You're The Problem, so you think...
The third mistake people make when trying to quit drinking is not having your own back. Not trusting that the life you want is better than a life with alcohol. Thinking that if you could just change alcohol might be accessible. The truth is, when you change and grow a more intimate relationship to yourself, you no longer DESIRE alcohol.
During this 5 part series,  I will teach you the five biggest mistakes people make when trying to quit drinking alcohol, how to recognize it, what to do different and how have some fun!
Don't miss all 5, It's a game changer.

Make yourself Queen of your life and watch how your garden grows: Schedule a complimentary alignment session:  HERE.

Thank you for heading to Apple Podcast To Drop a 5 Star Review and What You LOVE about the show! Your presence means so much to me.

I created something special waiting for you inside the Community.

It’s called The Permission Protocol —
 a five-part journey to help you rethink everything you believe
about the pleasure that’s possible in sobriety-

The best part is, it’s entirely free to you. JOIN US HERE!

🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back

Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe!

NEW Free Mini Course: The Permission Protocol-a five part journey to help you rethink everything you believe about the pleasure that is possible in sobriety and the radical freedom that it requires to get to the other side.

It's all inside of the Free, Off Social Media Wild Sobriety Community. Join HERE!

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

Got Strategy? The second mistake people make when trying to quit drinking is expecting different results with the same mindset. During this 5 part series,  I will teach you the five biggest mistakes people make when trying to quit drinking alcohol, how to recognize it, what to do different and how have some fun!
Don't miss all 5, It's a game changer.

Learn and stay accountable with proven strategy: Schedule a complimentary alignment session:  HERE.

Thank you for heading to Apple Podcast To Drop a 5 Star Review and What You LOVE about the show! Your presence means so much to me.

I created something special waiting for you inside the Community.

It’s called The Permission Protocol —
 a five-part journey to help you rethink everything you believe
about the pleasure that’s possible in sobriety-

The best part is, it’s entirely free to you. JOIN US HERE!

🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back

Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe!

NEW Free Mini Course: The Permission Protocol-a five part journey to help you rethink everything you believe about the pleasure that is possible in sobriety and the radical freedom that it requires to get to the other side.

It's all inside of the Free, Off Social Media Wild Sobriety Community. Join HERE!

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.