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  • XOXOJK 55: Good Versions of Terrible Things (w/ Nora McInerny Purmort)
    Strong women piss the internet off.

    So excited to share this week’s episode, featuring the one and only Nora McInerny Purmort (a.k.a. @NoraBorealis), founder of the non-profit Still Kickin, author of the new book It’s Okay to Laugh (Crying is Cool Too), mother to precocious pooper Ralph, and all around amazing human. We talk tragedy porn and how it lets us try on the grief that ultimately awaits us all, traveling with a three-year-old, the thrill of making something as real as an honest-to-God BOOK, the joys of therapy, and how public speaking is awesome–once it’s over. Stick a dog in your shirt and some earbuds in your head, friend. We’re dishing up a lot of realness here. xoxo

    Special Guest Nora Mcinerny Purmort!
    • NoraBorealis.com
    • Twitter
    • Still Kickin’
    • My Husband’s Tumor
    • Nora’s book: It’s Okay to Laugh: (Crying is Cool Too) (Available May 24th! Pre-order now!)
    • Other Things Discussed
      • Matt Logelin’s blog
      • Ignite Minneapolis
      • You Do Not Have to Be Good (Huffington Post)
      • Thanks much to our sponsor, National Machine.

        Check out our Facebook page! Find Jenn on Twitter or at her website. Find Kate on Twitter or at her website.
        48 min
      • XOXOJK 54: Gut Check (w/ Lucia Hawley)
        Why do I love this food, but some of it doesn’t love me back?

        This week we sit down with the luscious Lucia Hawley (a.k.a. @essentialomnivo), nutritional therapist to the stars! (Or at least the stars of this here podcast.) Jenn and Kate have both learned so much from Lucia about how to approach food in an empowering, positive, healthy way, and they’re super jazzed to introduce her to you and share a little (delicious) taste of her wisdom with the world. We talk organic farms (where you can learn a little about veggies and a lot about people), lingual neural tests (whoa), circus peanuts (do they still make those?) and where we all fall on the woo-woo scale (spoiler alert: Kate’s a 12 out of 10). Also, as usual, poop. Poop is really important, you guys. But don’t take our word for it. Let Lucia tell ya…

        Special guest Lucia Hawley!
        • Website
        • Twitter
        • Instagram
        • Essential You program at Solcana Crossfit
        • Lucia’s recommendations:
          • Balanced Bites
            • Practical Paleo: A Customized Approach to Health and a Whole-Foods Lifestyle Paperback – Diane Sanfilippo
            • Against All Grain
            • Other things discussed:
              • WEEK 20: A Bad Case of the Sugar Butts (Lauren Anderson’s Solcana Blog)
              • Mind + Body Revolution (Mpls St. Paul)
              • The Emily Program
              • Detoxinista
              • Gut Feeling: How Do Bacteria Cause Food Allergies and Intolerances? (MN Monthly, written by BFF of the show Mo Perry!)
              • Check out our Facebook page! Find Jenn on Twitter or at her website. Find Kate on Twitter or at her website.
                1 hr 1 min
              • XOXOJK 53 – Peter Dinklage, If You’re Listening…
                How uncomfortable do you want to get today?

                This week it’s all about what we’re reading, what we’re watching, and how we’re reading and watching it. Jenn is so far down Kindle road, she forgot how real books work (Kate: “You…hold it in your hands”). However you get words in your brain, the XOXOJK Book Club has got some preach-hands-emoji-worthy recommendations for you. And as Kate says, “The more books you read, the more books you will read.” Shhhh…just think about it. Then tune in and drop out with some TV. We talk Homeland, House of Cards, Girls, Game of Thrones, impossible-to-remember character names and the crazy crushable Peter Dinklage before segueing into a little politics…and gender politics. Can we get some preach-hands?

                XOXOJK Book Club!
                • XOXOJK Facebook Page
                • Kate’s Goodreads page with the XOXOJK book club list
                • The Unspeakable: And Other Subjects of Discussion Paperback – Meghan Daum
                • I Was Told There’d Be Cake: Essays – Sloane Crosley
                •  What We’re Watching!
                  • Homeland (Showtime)
                    • Prisoners of War – Iranian series
                    • Baskets (FX)
                    • House of Cards (Netflix)
                    • Love (Netflix)
                    • Game of Thrones (HBO) 
                      • Life As We Know It
                      • Confirmation (HBO)
                      • Hillary Clinton + the 2016 Election Cycle
                        • Exit Polls: As A Bloc, Women Are Voting For Hillary Clinton (NPR)
                        • https://twitter.com/cleverkate/status/710513640290430976

                          https://twitter.com/cleverkate/status/710514032864681985

                          https://twitter.com/cleverkate/status/710515198109417473

                          • Meet the wealthy donors who are funneling millions into the 2016 elections (Washington Post – nice work by our friend Kaeti!)
                          • 11:50 email received in inbox
                            11:51 sender steps into my office to discuss email JUST SENT pic.twitter.com/DPdqqbg4QE

                            — Jenn Schaal (@JennSchaal) April 8, 2016

                            @kaeti @kevinschaul I would like to marry Kevin so I could be Jenn Schaal Schaul

                            — Jenn Schaal (@JennSchaal) April 8, 2016

                            Tweets of the Week!

                            Jenn:

                            https://twitter.com/gen_mueller/status/720086922710753280

                            Kate:

                            I was promised that hippos have:
                            -two cute teeth on top
                            -two cute teeth on bottom
                            THE END. pic.twitter.com/kDtK0UELKR

                            — Steve Wolfhard (@wolfhard) April 2, 2016

                            Check out our Facebook page! Find Jenn on Twitter or at her website. Find Kate on Twitter or at her website.
                            45 min
                          • XOXOJK 52 BONUS! – A Story About Humans

                            Welcome to our very first bonus episode! After we finished recording Episode 52, to absolutely no one’s surprise we just kept talking OJ, specifically about the infamous ‘if it doesn’t fit you must acquit’ glove. Our producer kept recording. And now, here it is for you to enjoy. Thanks for listening, and see you next week on XOXOJK.

                            5 min
                          • XOXOJK 52: A Ph.D. in O.J. (w/ Pahoua Yang Hoffman)
                            I’m not black, I’m O.J.

                            This week, it’s all about the O.J. (not the juice, though now we kind of want some.) We’re flashing back to 1994, along with everyone else who can’t get enough of The People v. O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story on FX. Whether you haven’t gotten around to tuning in or you’re totally on the bandwagon, we’ve got you covered. Our guest, Pahoua Yang Hoffman, is pretty much a Ph.D. in the O.J. case and packs four books’ worth of fascinating info, history and trivia into this one podcast. Jenn’s also largely in the know and Kate is charmingly in awe for most of the episode. Here it is, folks: our comprehensive guide to the O.J. American crime story.

                             Special Guest Pahoua Yang Hoffman
                            FX Series – American Crime Story: The People vs OJ Simpson
                            Books mentioned:
                            • Murder in Brentwood – Mark Fuhrman
                            • The Run of His Life: The People v. O. J. Simpson – Jeffrey Toobin
                            • Nicole Brown Simpson: The Private Diary of a Life Interrupted – Faye D. Resnick
                            • How I Helped O.J. Get Away With Murder: The Shocking Inside Story of Violence, Loyalty, Regret, and Remorse – Mike Gilbert
                            • If I Did It: Confessions of the Killer  – O. J. Simpson
                            • Other links:
                              • ‘This American Life’ episode about one of OJ’s comeback attempts ‘Juiced’
                              • O.J. Simpson white Bronco chase: How it happened, minute by minute
                              • Check out our Facebook page! Find Jenn on Twitter or at her website. Find Kate on Twitter or at her website.
                                56 min
                              • XOXOJK 51: I Love Cheese
                                I cannot believe you fisted on live television!

                                This week, we pack a lot of realness into one 30 minute episode. Did you know poop talk makes relationships stronger? By this measure, Jenn and her BF are titanium-grade after a little bout of Montezuma’s revenge during their vacation in Mexico. Also in this episode: accidental fisting on live TV, Apple’s awesome short film about autism and accessibility features, “niche tweets,” and (drum roll) more info on the XOXOJK Book Club (the most low-pressure book club ever–no appetizer-making required). We’re more excited than Kristen Wiig the night before going to Disney World. What? Just listen…it’ll all become clear…

                                Mexico trip and book related follow-up!
                                • XOXOJK 50: Books, Sex, and Baseball
                                • Agorafabulous!: Dispatches from My Bedroom Paperback – Sara Benincasa
                                • Modern Romance – Aziz Ansari
                                • The Run of His Life: The People v. O. J. Simpson Paperback – Jeffrey Toobin
                                • April Fools has become the worst!
                                  Jenn was on TV!
                                  • Kare 11 – Breaking the News
                                  • Pee Wee’s Big Holiday
                                  • A photo posted by jennschaal (@jennschaal) on Apr 1, 2016 at 5:27pm PDT

                                    Couples That Are Comfortable Talking About Poop Are The Happiest Couples

                                    @cleverkate @JennSchaal @xoxojkpodcast weren't you *just* talking about this? https://t.co/IBkWvwdmsK

                                    — Hannah Meacock Ross (@HannahMeacock) March 31, 2016

                                    Autism Awareness Month
                                    • Apple videos:
                                    • https://youtu.be/UTx12y42Xv4

                                      https://youtu.be/oMN2PeFama0

                                      XOXOJK Book Club!
                                      • Follow along on our Facebook Page
                                      • Has Anyone Seen My Pants? Paperback – Sarah Colonna
                                      • Tweets of the Week!

                                        Jenn:

                                        https://twitter.com/Phook75/status/716414335904563204

                                        Kate:

                                        https://twitter.com/amandaesque/status/714916271888941057

                                        Check out our Facebook page! Find Jenn on Twitter or at her website. Find Kate on Twitter or at her website.
                                        30 min
                                      • XOXOJK 50: Books, Sex, and Baseball
                                        I bet you didn’t think I was going to say ‘books’ after ‘the best pastime of them all’…

                                        This week, we put on our word-nerd pants, and dive in to some real talk about the best brain food of all: BOOKS! Dirty books, funny books, books that make you laugh AND cry (we’re looking at you, Nora), and books that make you better. We love ’em all. We talk about how Goodreads makes it easy to see what your buds are reading and share recommendations and reading lists. What’s that? You think an XOXOJK Bookclub sounds bomb dot com? Weird. US TOO! Like a big Sisterhood of the Traveling Word-Nerd Pants…

                                        It’s Okay to Laugh (Crying Is Cool, Too) – Nora Mcinerny Purmort’s Book

                                        • Chuck Terhark’s article about Nora
                                        • Goodreads
                                          • Goodreads app – iOS • Android
                                          • Kate’s GR page
                                          • Jenn’s GR page
                                          • Books Discussed:
                                            • Knockout: Stories (John Jodzio)
                                            • The Dirt: Confessions of the World’s Most Notorious Rock Band
                                            • Murder in Brentwood (American Crime Stories) – Mark Fuhrman
                                            • Men in Love – Nancy Friday
                                            • The Sexual Life of Catherine M. – Catherine Millet
                                            • My Mother Was Nuts – Penny Marshall
                                            • Girl Walks into a Bar . . .: Comedy Calamities, Dating Disasters, and a Midlife Miracle – Rachel Dratch
                                            • God, If You’re Not Up There, I’m F*cked: Tales of Stand-Up, Saturday Night Live, and Other Mind-Altering Mayhem – Darrell Hammond
                                            • Yes Please – Amy Poehler
                                            • Poking a Dead Frog: Conversations with Today’s Top Comedy Writers  – Mike Sacks
                                            • Cheryl Strayed books
                                            • PostSecret: Extraordinary Confessions from Ordinary Lives – Frank Warren
                                            • Blood, Bones & Butter: The Inadvertent Education of a Reluctant Chef – Gabrielle Hamilton
                                              • Prune restaurant
                                              • Prune Cookbook
                                              • Julie and Julia: 365 Days, 524 Recipes, 1 Tiny Apartment Kitchen Kindle Edition – Julie Powell
                                              • I’m a Stranger Here Myself: Notes on Returning to America After 20 Years Away – Bill Bryson
                                              • Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger’s – John Elder Robison
                                              • All Cats Have Asperger Syndrome – Kathy Hoopmann
                                              • Cravings: Recipes for All the Food You Want to Eat – Chrissy Teigen, Adeena Sussman, Aubrie Pick 
                                              • Presence: Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges – Amy Cuddy
                                              • Other Things Discussed
                                                • This Moved Me Podcast
                                                • Hennepin County Library
                                                • Check out our Facebook page! Find Jenn on Twitter or at her website. Find Kate on Twitter or at her website.



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                                                  32 min
                                                • XOXOJK 49: Facebook Official
                                                  I’ll have roasted cauliflower, a large dark roast coffee, a cigarette, and four beers…

                                                  In this week’s episode, we learn that Jenn has reached a major life milestone (and personal goal): she’s in a Facebook-official relationship. She set this goal on an earlier episode of XOXJK and Kate has a question: What’s next? ICYMI, Kate got married. And as it turns out, if you choose the right person for the right reasons, it can be pretty sweet. Pouncing on the sweetness (and the change), she decides to take a 10-day course — The Daily Action Course by Anthony Ongaro of Break the Twitch, which helps you look at how you’re currently spending your days/time and build new habits/carve out time to reach goals you’re working on (or not working on; kind of the point). She signed up to support Anthony, a friend, and wound up finding it to be exactly what she needed. We then talk tweets of the week, like professionals, and we’re off and running! Enjoy.

                                                  Kate and Kyle got Married! Jenn’s in a Facebook-official relationship!
                                                  • Wedding Dress Fails
                                                  • Fuller House
                                                  • Straightline Dance Fitness
                                                  • The Daily Action Class
                                                    • Break the Twitch
                                                    • Anthony Ongaro on Twitter
                                                    • Amy Ongaro Consulting
                                                    • New Slang
                                                      • Say Goodbye To ‘on Fleek, ’ ‘basic’ And ‘squad’ In 2016 And Learn These 10 Words Instead (MTV.com)
                                                      • Tweets of the Week!

                                                        Jenn:

                                                        https://twitter.com/PaymanBenz/status/711444184616411136

                                                        Kate:

                                                        https://twitter.com/kristaprints/status/710831908888776704

                                                        Check out our Facebook page! Find Jenn on Twitter or at her website. Find Kate on Twitter or at her website.

                                                         

                                                        44 min
                                                      • XOXOJK 48: BRB, BBQ Christmas
                                                        I’m just going to continue to create the life I really want, and reject the life that everyone else thinks I should have.
                                                        – Kate O’Reilly

                                                        WE’RE BACK IN THE SADDLE and by saddle I mean couch to record fresh new episodes of XOXOJK just for you. We came together to talk about boyfriends, food, the election and our lack of Twitter usage this week. Sally Franson, friend extraordinaire, joins us and chimes in with her eternal wisdom WHICH IS ALL AROUND US. All three of us are doing an anti-inflammatory cleanse at the moment, Sally on her own and Jenn and Kate are doing the Solcana Essential You six week program. Stay tuned for more updates over the six weeks as we move our way through taking things out of our diet, how we feel when we do that, with Lucia Hawley, nutritionist extraordinaire, guiding us the whole time. We are lucky to know a lot of amazing women!

                                                        Catchups!
                                                        • Spot Spas
                                                        • What’s everyone watching?
                                                          • Jessica Jones
                                                          • Making a Murderer
                                                          • Fargo (Hulu)
                                                          • Bob’s Burgers
                                                          • The Leftovers (HBO Now)
                                                          • The Great British Baking Show
                                                          • Adele Carpool Karaoke
                                                          • Essential You at Solcana Wellness
                                                            • The Essential You Program
                                                            • The 2016 Election is 11 short (long) months away!
                                                              • On Marco Rubio (NY Times)
                                                              • IDK NOT TRUMP THO 2016
                                                              • Tweets of the Week!

                                                                Kate:

                                                                Having a religious experience at @RevivalMpls. pic.twitter.com/GqKzWKSZfe

                                                                — Tom Horgen (@tomhorgen) January 8, 2016

                                                                @cleverkate @hansenwithane @RevivalMpls LEMME TELL YOU WHAT I DID WITH THE ORANGE SAUCE. White bread + chicken skin dipped in sauce. Damn.

                                                                — Tom Horgen (@tomhorgen) January 9, 2016

                                                                Jenn:

                                                                Reductress’ whole damn Twitter account

                                                                Check out our Facebook page! Find Jenn on Twitter or at her website. Find Kate on Twitter or at her website.
                                                                58 min
                                                              • XOXOJK 47: Therapy Trio! w/ Sally Franson
                                                                A starved mind, a starved body, a starved spirit, doesn’t make good shit

                                                                 

                                                                [Twerking] is how I healed my cancer. Just kidding, that’s not science.

                                                                 

                                                                At the base of it, people just want to feel like they belong.

                                                                2016 is here and XOXOJK is back with new recordings for your earholes! Special guest this week is the creative-twerking-surviving-yoga practicing-teacher(ing)-comedian and all around snuggly SALLY FRANSON! Sally is an accomplished writer and creative living in Minneapolis whose hilarity and gentleness are life altering. She takes Kate and Jenn into some great crevices of conversation and inspiration and will make you want to hug and suck every inch of fun out of life. Also, she manages to reference Dow Jones which IS INCREDIBLE.

                                                                Sally Franson
                                                                • Website
                                                                • Twitter
                                                                • Solcana Crossfit
                                                                • ‘On Fear’ by Mary Ruelfe

                                                                  Samsāra

                                                                  The Saturn Return

                                                                  Female Friends Spend Raucous Night Validating The Living Shit Out Of Each Other (The Onion)

                                                                  Check out our Facebook page! Find Jenn on Twitter or at her website. Find Kate on Twitter or at her website.
                                                                  45 min

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