You Have the Power - The Road to Truth, Freedom and Real Connection

Podcast Episode Description:

In this episode, we dive into the healing journey after a breakup. Host Darla Ridilla reflects on her personal experience of heartbreak following a recent breakup, sharing the raw emotions she felt just days after and the growth she’s experienced in the two months since. She discusses the tools and strategies that helped her navigate from despair to readiness for a fresh start, including:

• Allowing herself to grieve and be okay with not being okay.
• Rediscovering herself through self-investment and personal exploration.
• Prioritizing personal growth to break unhealthy relationship patterns.

Darla highlights her top three favorite steps from her free guide, 10 Steps to Healing from a Breakup, and emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, setting boundaries, and creating a healthy relationship with oneself before pursuing new connections.

Whether you're fresh out of a relationship or looking for ways to heal old wounds, this episode offers actionable insights and inspiration to rebuild your confidence and move forward.

For more support, download the free guide and explore resources at High Value Woman.

Mentioned Episodes:

• Episode 16: "Breakups Are a B*itch"
• Episode 21: "Permission to Grieve"

Tune in for an honest, empowering conversation about finding strength and rediscovering yourself after heartbreak.

Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

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Stop Being A Good Girl is a transformative episode designed to empower women to break free from societal expectations and reclaim their authentic selves. In this episode, I dive deep into the patterns of people-pleasing, self-sacrifice, and toxic relationships that often hold women back. Through candid conversations, actionable advice, and inspiring stories, Stop Being A Good Girl encourages listeners to prioritize their own needs, embrace their inner strength, and create a life that truly reflects their worth. 

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Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/

Send me an email: [email protected]

This episode addresses the harmful practice of blaming survivors for their experiences or reactions to abuse, particularly in cases of narcissistic abuse. Key points include:

• Definition of Victim Blaming: This occurs when someone shares an abusive experience, and the other person blames them for their reaction or for tolerating the behavior.
• Narcissists' Tactics: Narcissists often target strong, successful women, slowly eroding their confidence and boundaries over time, like a river wearing down a rock.
• Challenges with Therapy: Therapists who lack personal experience with trauma or narcissistic abuse may fail to understand its complexities. This can lead to harmful responses, such as blaming the survivor or dictating their choices, which can retraumatize them.
• Social Isolation: Friends and family may only see the narcissist's public persona and doubt the survivor's account of abuse. This disbelief compounds the survivor's sense of isolation and harm.
• Importance of Support: Survivors, especially those who lived with their abuser, need validation and support. Blaming them only deepens their trauma.
• Historical Silencing: Historically, women were denied the power to share their truths. Reclaiming their voice and telling their story is crucial for healing.
• Therapeutic Manipulation: In joint counseling, narcissists may manipulate the therapist, further harming the survivor.

The episode emphasizes the importance of believing and supporting survivors to aid their healing and empower them to reclaim their truth and power.

Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info

Sign up for mailing list: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/connect

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HighValueWoman-m7w

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/

Send me an email: [email protected]

In this heartfelt episode, I open up about navigating the end of a relationship that ended suddenly and unexpectedly just before the holidays. Without the usual progression of a relationship fading over time, the recovery has been uniquely challenging. I share my journey of giving myself permission to grieve—allowing space for my feelings while setting a date to start moving forward.

Grief is messy, healing is imperfect, and that’s okay. Taking time alone for self-reflection has been a powerful tool for me, and I encourage you to honor your own grief while recognizing the value of setting boundaries around it. Breakups, while painful, can also be opportunities for incredible growth and positive change.

I discuss my decision to no longer give second chances in relationships where the underlying reasons for the breakup remain unresolved. This clarity has strengthened my resolve to date with intention, to see past relationships not as failures but as lessons, and to focus on helping other women navigate their relationships.

Healing is a journey, and small changes add up to transformative ones over time. It’s never too late to begin loving yourself, to seek healthy relationships, and to gain clarity on what you truly want. Let this episode inspire you to give yourself grace, honor your feelings, and keep striving for the love and life you deserve.

Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info

Sign up for mailing list: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/connect

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HighValueWoman-m7w

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/

Send me an email: [email protected]

This episode explores the essential role of building and maintaining a strong community. It highlights the importance of female friendships as enduring sources of support, especially during times of crisis. While romantic relationships may come and go, the bonds we share with our tribe of women provide stability, strength, and connection that can carry us through life's challenges. Tune in to discover why cultivating these relationships is vital and how they empower us to thrive. 

Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info

Sign up for mailing list: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/connect

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HighValueWoman-m7w

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/

Send me an email: [email protected]

Are you familiar with the traits of a dismissive avoidant attachment style? Join me for a chat to learn the red flags to look out for, particularly in the dating world.

If you are interested in hearing more about healthy dating from Sabrina Zohar, follow her podcast here https://www.sabrinazohar.com/podcast.

Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info

Sign up for mailing list: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/connect

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HighValueWoman-m7w

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/

Send me an email: [email protected]

What if the anxiety you are experiencing in your relationship is your intuition telling you that the relationship dynamics need to change? Join me for a chat on determining whether the anxiety is caused by past or present experiences.

Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info

Sign up for mailing list: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/connect

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/

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When I go through a breakup, I think about what I can learn about myself and how I can do better next time. Join me for a chat about the painful process of navigating a breakup and its lessons.

Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info

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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/

Send me an email: [email protected]

I unexpectedly had to end a relationship last week. It was very painful, particularly with the holiday season just around the corner but it was necessary to protect my peace. Join me for a chat about the difficult emotions that we encounter when we have to let go of someone we love.

Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/

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Trauma often is passed down to future generations. I discovered this week that not only was I abused by the narcissists, I was abused by their entire family. Join me for a chat about the effects of generational trauma and narcissistic families.

Take advantage of the holiday special to get support from feeling stressed and overwhelmed. Click the link to book a session at a holiday discount.

Connect with Darla Ridilla: 

🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoice

Free Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtk

Relationship Coaching - https://www.highvaluewoman.info/relationship-coaching

Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info

Sign up for mailing list: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/connect

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HighValueWoman-m7w

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/

Send me an email: [email protected]