You Will Please Me

Eva Oh breaks down the psychology that goes into designing BDSM dungeons. Why did she design her former dungeon in Bali to resemble an execution room, and why she is intrigued by last words, death, and performance? And for listers who are architects, see what Eva’s aspirations for her next dungeon are.
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(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:53) Building My First-Ever Dungeon
(01:03) Death's Influence on Aesthetics
(02:35) One's Last Words
(04:17) Bringing My Execution Room to Life
(05:12) Inviting My Practice Into My Space
(06:36) Breaking Down the Experience In My Dungeon
(10:38) Total Ownership and Control
(12:36) Fantasy Aside, Realities Behind Creating a BDSM Space
(13:57) The Dungeon in Cologne
(14:34) My Future Dungeon and My Current Home
(18:15) From My Past Spaces To My Life Now
(21:05) Current Projects
(21:50) A Thank You to Mistress Danielle Blunt
(22:39) Final Thoughts on Death and The Execution Room

Eva Oh sets the record straight about a lie spread by a former client: a dentist with a tickle fetish, a penchant for luxury credit cards, a yellow sports car, and dubious musical talents? Eva also shares insights into the art of spanking and a surprising revelation about her feet.
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(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(01:48) From The Dungeon to the Penthouse
(04:51) The Tickling...and Everything Else, Begins
(07:06) Chit Chat: Inconsistencies Unfold
(08:53) Douchebag Black Cards and Yellow Sports Cars
(11:47) Advice for New Dommes
(12:00) What Was Real and What Was Artifice?
(14:25) Moving From Tickling to Spanking
(17:04) Protocol Behind Safe Spanking
(22:04) Pinching Nipples With My Toes
(23:02) You Don't Always Need a Suitcase of Tools

Eva Oh Revisits an adventurous journey through Tokyo's kink scene, discovering the city's unique take on sex, modesty, and voyeurism. From erotic shower shows to theatrical shibari and BDSM hostess bars, uncover the hidden stories and personal anecdotes of Tokyo's sexual tapestry. By the end, you’ll have heard stories about Eva’s friendships, an tattoo’d submissive with an amusing relationship with pain, and what she plans to do next in Japan as a tourist.
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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:19) Revisiting Japanese Kink
(2:12) The Mystique of Soap Bars
(4:28) Shopping Kink Tools
(06:37) Eroticism and Camp Within Japan's Shibari Scene
(10:37) Sisters in Kink: Chiaki, Hinako, and Suzy Q
(15:55) Stepping into BDSM Hostess Bars
(18:51) Bodies, Pain, and Tattoos
(19:29) No Pain, No Pain, No Pain
(22:02) Ginger Cookies, Drinks, and Sushi in Rope Bars
(23:11) Japan Without Speaking Japanese
(24:26) Reflections
(27:28) Away From Kink, Onto Local Vanilla Preferences
(29:05) Repression and Conservatism
(30:06) What to do in Japan Next Time?

You’ve witnessed my dating successes, and now, I’ll dissect my former toxic relationship that was entrenched in the strange world of celebrity culture. It all starts in the dimly lit Thai restaurant located across my former apartment. Unbenounst to me, the minute I locked eyes with my date, the man, the enigma, who would trigger the emotional rollercoaster that ultimately became my life. Our relationship was defined by deception, gaslighting, and misogyny. This is the story about a relationship that chipped away at my confidence and trust, and how I overcame it. 

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Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - My Worst Relationship? How We Met
(07:30) - Joining the Band on Tour, Sort of
(08:40) - I Move to London to be Together, He Reveals a Secret
(10:50) - I Find Out More Secrets
(12:15) - My First Experience with Gaslighting
(14:20) - I Stay, and Follow Him Around the World
(17:00) - Feeling Misunderstood
(18:00) - Why I Share This
(21:00) - How Meditation Played a Part
(22:30) - Understanding Celebrity Culture
(23:40) - A Revelation at the MTV Awards
(25:50) - His Accusations
(28:15) - More Red Flags
(29:00) - He Starts to Denounce My Work, after being supportive initially
(32:10) - Misogyny at Fuji Rock Festival, the Brit Awards...
(36:40) - Ed Sheeran Saving the Day?
(38:40) - How it Slowly and Painfully Ended

Let's unpack the intricacies of dating as a Dominatrix! It’s been a ride filled with thrills, dangers, self-discovery, and power. I start with recollection about when my newfound dominance found an eager partner I wasn't quite ready for. That story leads into my debatable luck on dating sites before pre-dating apps existed, my discovering the swinger community, what it’s like developing crushes on clients, and ultimately, you’ll see how how my dating habits today are influenced by the hard lessons I learned on the way.

The Season Finale! It’s been a raw ride of experiences, emotions, and lessons learned and I shared much more with you than I bargained for. Do I regret it? In this season finale I reminisce over what I’ve revealed - my turning into an AI, my sex party adventures, encounters with clients gone wrong and more… It’s been challenging but I hope my life's insights and my world have spoken to you, or at least inspired a little joy. Shall I do another season?

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HIGHLIGHTS:

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - How I Created the Podcast This Season

(01:30) - Which Episodes Were Tough!

(02:10) - What Did I Want From It?

(03:00) - Leaving a Rating Really Helps! Thank you

(03:15) - Why I Started This Podcast

(04:50) - What Surprised Me

(06:10) - Vulnerability and Community Support

(07:58) - A Fun Opportunity to Investigate My Own Mind

(09:40) - Major Motivations

(10:40) - A Reflection on the ‘Arsehole Tax’ Episode and Money

(13:15) - Getting to Share My History

(14:20) - How Should I Move Forward?

(15:30) - The Risks

(18:10) - Thank You for Listening. See You Next Season?

What if the key to attracting wealth, in all its forms, is contentment rather than raw manipulation? In this episode I open up on what I've learned about honesty, assertiveness, observation and communication - to get what I want.

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - Mind Tricks

(01:15) - My Own Mind

(02:10) - Contentment as a Tool, Over Ourselves and Others?

(05:05) - My Values

(07:30) - How My Family Factors In

(09:20) - I Have What I Want

(10:15) - People Are Drawn In

(10:35) - How Being A Dominatrix Has Added To My Success

(11:32) - How My Skills (With Manipulation?) Could Be Problematic

(12:10) - Being Observant and Not Judging Too Soon

(13:00) - Breakdown of the Ego Can Lead to Generosity

(14:00) - Centring My Pleasure, with Less Attachment

(15:40) - Understanding What You Actually Want

(16:55) - Pandering to Ego as a Tactic?

(19:25) - Figuring Out How My Assertiveness Fits in the World

(21:15) - Bringing the Skills of the Dungeon into My Daily Life

(22:25) - A Recap

(24:35) - Choosing When to Use My Skills

(25:55) - A Reflection on the #teakink Podcast

Can moving to a tropical paradise truly transform your life? I found myself drawn to Bali after a period of burnout, yearning for a slower rhythm amidst nature. I would travel overseas to see my clients and communities once a month. But my idyllic existence quickly gave way to a harsher reality when borders shut for COVID, and I filled the gap by launching myself into the local expat community. Venture with me as I discover a realm of sex coaches and their tantric swinger nights, lost start up founders and their cold plunges and a healthy mass of the generally dysfunctional. I also land myself in the midst of corruption, theft and a growing awareness of the injustice that underpins the islands existence; and spoiler alert, I eventually leave to find a kink community that satisfies what I am looking for, for now…

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HIGHLIGHTS:

(00:15) - Why Bali?

(01:35) - My Jungle Home

(03:05) - Healing a Burnout

(04:00) - Naivety Against Corruption and Wealth Inequality

(05:50) - Moving to Canggu

(08:02) - The Exoticisation of the Other

(09:00) - Running Away

(10:15) - Misogyny and Safety

(11:05) - Corruption

(12:05) - Dysfunction

(14:20) - The Bali Kink Community

(16:25) - The London Kink Community

(17:05) - What is a Life Coach?

(17:50) - Sex Coaches

(18:50) - Tantric Temple Swinger Nights

(19:50) - Loneliness and Cold Plunges

(20:10) - Start-up Founders and Finding Themselves

(24:00) - Discovering What I Actually Needed

(28:00) - I Just Want to Fit In?

For years, I lived a double life. My conservative, Christian mother knew nothing of my profession as a Dominatrix until a revelation seven years in the making unfolded, with surprising results. In this candid, personal episode, I share about the fear, the tension, and ultimately the liberation that came with breaking my silence. I explore the delicate dance of withholding the truth, the strain it put on my relationship with my mother, and the unexpected acceptance that emerged. Disclaimer: Some long pauses towards the end due to tears :)

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