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Your personal dating coach is online at www.SingleDatingDiva.com

When dating with purpose you can manifest what you really want but it takes true commitment to the process and intention.

•You can attract what you are looking for by truly knowing who you are and what you want in a partner but it has to be a real intention. Focusing on how having this person will make you feel will help you zone in on what is most important.

•You need to visualize the characteristics and qualities you want in a partner. Keep these values based qualities that are extremely important to you.

•Use positive language – focus on what you want rather than what you do not want.

•Write it down and put it somewhere you can see it. Focus on how this happy thought makes you feel. Do this as often as possible each day.

•Keeping a gratitude journal that you write in each day also helps attract more things to be grateful for which includes a partner.

•Changing your mindset will change your life’s path and attract the best type of people to you. It will not always look like you imagined but it is usually much better.  It worked for many others and me.

•POST IT NOTE / MANTRA: I will find the best love for me

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I want to postpone a Vegas trip due to Delta variant, and friends are mad at me Hello! 

Long story short… My friend, her husband, my husband, and me have been planning a trip to Las Vegas since May. 

We plan to go mid-October. With the Delta variant, I’ve started getting nervous about going, and I suggested we postpone the trip until things improve again with covid. 

Not only that, I want to have a “full” good experience in Las Vegas and preferably not have to wear masks like they are mandating right now. I’m also nervous because we have two unvaccinated children at home (young). 

Our friends have no children. My friend says that’s ridiculous and we should go and we shouldn’t let fear stop us. I pushed back and she is upset with me for “backing out” on our plans. 

Am I being unreasonable? 

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Today:
§ If you are always ending up in the friend zone, then there’s something about the vibe you’re giving out that puts you there.

§ For some reason, you’re not inspiring butterflies in someone and you’re making the “friend” part too easy.

You need to:
1) Be Clear About Intentions and Expectations: Being clear about your intentions and expectations ensures that everything is out in the open and that you are on the same page as each other. If you’re not, then move on and don’t waste your time trying to change their mind. If someone wants to be with you they will be.
2) Play It Cool: Desperation and neediness are NOT attractive. Don’t be too clingy with someone you’re dating. Give them their space and make sure you have yours. Don’t play hard to get but BE hard to forget.
3) Set Clear Boundaries: Make sure that you set clear boundaries of what a friend is and isn’t to you. If they talk to you like they do their friend then they don’t see you romantically, especially if they tell you about other people they’re dating or complain about other dates.
4) Don’t Be Their Friend: While you want to have a friendship with your partner, you need to be careful to not be their friend rather than their partner.
5) Be Aware of Chemistry: You need to be aware of what sort of romantic chemistry you have together. If they don’t want to kiss you or eventually be intimate then that’s definitely a sign that they don’t see you THAT way. In that case, it’s time to re-evaluate.

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Dear Matthew,

Is it impolite not to watch series recommended to you by your friends?  I know it's a silly question, but I wanna know other's point of view.

Your questions to [email protected]

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§ People SAY they want to be in a commitment BUT at the first chance they get to run they do. What is it about the word "commitment" or "relationship" that has people running for the hills?

§ Commitment fears are the hallmark of every whirlwind romance and bench marked by emotional unavailability. It's all great while the fireworks are going off, but, when reality hits they go running for the hills.

§ Someone who is commitment phobic doesn't easily form attachments, so buyer beware! If you're dating someone who seems commitment phobic, don't be too pushy with them but pay attention to the red flags.

§ Their inherent desire to get attention and be wanted overwhelms their judgment and their logic and they either knowingly or unknowingly leave a trail of broken hearts in their wake. It's important for you to recognize the patterns and avoid them unless you're just in it for the fun as well.

§ They don't keep promises? They are hard to pin down? They are last minute daters? You seem perpetually in the "friend zone" or even worse the "friends with benefits" zone? They don't share intimate details about their private life? No long term relationships in their past? Then, my friend, you might just have a commitment-phobe on your hands.

§ If red flags are raising then YOU should be running in the other direction. Don't waste your time, emotions and heart on this. You can't save them and they won't change just for your amazingly wonderful self.

Sorry to burst your bubble, you aren't the exception to the rule. If someone tells you they aren't looking for a relationship BELIEVE THEM.

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