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  • We Had A Threesome Agreement - It Fell Apart - Matthew Stapley July 30, 2021

    My partner and I have been toying with the idea of inviting another person into the bedroom for some years now. 

    As far as I've been able to tell, even from the very beginning, we've been on the same track.   Basically, whenever we find "the right person", we'd give it a go.  A few weeks ago we met up with friend we only see every few years and the two of them started kissing.   

    After a long talk with our friend, I told them that we were very interested.   

    This weekend, my partner and I decided this was the right person and we invited them to dinner.  On my way back from the washroom, my partner stopped me and told me that they don’t actually want to share me.   Never have, never will.  

    The conversation never happened at dinner and now I don’t know what to tell our friend.  

    Help!

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    7 min
  • I'm Tired ALL THE TIME - The Tough Stuff with Matthew Stapley July 29, 2021
    YOUR QUESTIONS TO [email protected]

    Dear Matthew,

    Why have I been so tired lately?

    The past few days including today are miserable. I slept fine.   I'm hydrated and nothing has changed from normal but I'm still so tired. I have things to get done, so I'm not going to take a nap because then i won't have time for anything.

    What the hell is going on I haven't changed anything??

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    6 min
  • I Am A Catch - Suzie The Dating Diva - July 29, 2021

    I’m a catch (attractive, smart, got my life in order, fun) so why can’t I find love?
    Connect with Suzie The Dating Diva @ www.SingleDatingDiva.com

    § If you haven’t been “caught” yet, then you need to reconsider your “catch” status.

    § NO ONE is a "catch" to everyone they meet. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say, and that isn't truer than it is in dating. Are you a dating catch? To the right person sure you are, to the wrong person, no you're not.

    § So many people feel that because they have a lot of great qualities - looks, education, success, personality, etc - that they are a catch and ANYONE would be lucky to have them. But they remain single and can't find love ... why? It's because of their sense of entitlement.

    § Your dating net should be cast wide. Know what your "must haves" & "deal breakers" in a partner are and keep your options open for everything else. Having a narrow vision makes you miss out on what could be a great experience.

    How to find that perfect mutual "catch" situation is to keep dating, keep trying and have a positive attitude and keep your ego in check because you’re only a catch to someone who wants to catch someone like you.

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    6 min
  • Landlord Is Renting Out My Rental - Matthew Stapley's Tough Stuff July 28, 2021

    Dear Matthew,

    Got kind of a weird situation that I'm trying to figure out how to deal with.   My wife and I are moving to another city in September and the way the rental market is we've had to start renting an apartment in the new city since June in order to secure an apartment for when we make the move. We've signed a lease and have been paying on time. I was talking to our landlord last night and she mentioned her friend has been staying in the apartment we have leased because his insurance stopped covering the cost of the place he was living.  She’s a sweet lady but it doesn't seem right for us to be paying rent while her friend lives there.   What do we do?

    Your TOUGH STUFF questions to [email protected]

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    6 min
  • Weird News with Lita OnLoud
    Today...

    Wanted Woman Shows Up For Reward
    Winnipeg Beats Toronto
    Kevin Hart Prank War
    What You May Have Missed About Jeff Bezos' Tip To Space
    And Japan's Very Cool Olympic Theme Music.

    Lita On Loud catches you up on some of the oddest news of the week!

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    9 min
  • Friends With Benefits - The Tough Stuff with Matthew Stapley July 27, 2021
    Dear Matthew,  I was searching a site that is specifically for people wanting to find friends with benefits.   I am positive that I found one of my real life friends on there.   I have always been interested in this person, and now I'm really interested!   Is it wrong for me to approach them in person?

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    6 min
  • Why some people will always be single - Suzie The Dating Diva July 27, 2021

    Why are some people always single?   Some advice from www.SingleDatingDiva.com

    § Some people are single because they choose to be and that’s perfectly OK, some, however, really want to be in a relationship but self-sabotage, while others are really trying but can’t seem to catch a break.

    § The REAL reasons most people are single fall into these categories:

    1) you make bad dating choices,

    2) you engage in unhealthy emotional attachments,

    3) you have more baggage than an Kardashian going on vacation,

    4) you’re picky,

    5) you have a sense of entitlement,

    6) you like it in your comfort zone,

    7) you have low self esteem or

    8) you’re emotionally unavailable.

    You need to take a dating break and unpack your dating history and find out what trends and themes keep coming up and then DEAL WITH IT. Is it your ego? Is it your childhood? Is it something else? Whether you need to speak to a therapist or a coach or create a plan on your own, it’s necessary to name it and shame it, then move on.

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    7 min
  • Baby Come Back - Matthew Stapley July 26, 2021

    Hi Matthew,  I just recently reconnected with a guy from my past.  

    There was an instant attraction when we first met. We hooked up a couple of times.  

    Things just weren't in the right place for things to work between us. 

    Fast forward to now and we have found each other again.  The attraction is still very strong.  

    I would just like to know do we have a chance this time around?

    Your questions to [email protected]

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    4 min

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