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Dear Matthew,

I am pregnant and my husband and i are doing renovations in our house. We moved in with my in laws with our daughter. They eat loudly often with their hands ( like rice and salads ) and IT GROSSES ME OUT. I barely eating and I am actually losing weight which is a concerned for my doctor and OB. My husband says that i have to suck it up and have my meals with everybody but i really cant eat with them. Now it even hunts me all those mouth open and that disgusting smacking sound......

What should I do? Should I say it bluntly? Should I suck it up for 2 more months?

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Dear Matthew,

How do I stop obsessing over social media?

This thing has greatly impacted my life and not in a positive way.

If someone didn't respond to me in a day - I'll feel terribly depressed and if someone do respond to me I'll have this rush of happiness - before it's gone and I'm back to numb.

I feel like the "me" before social media are much happier than now, but I can't delete my account because all my friends are there, but I feel like each and everyday my mental health deteriorate because of this.

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Suzie The Dating Diva is back... Today... Seal the Deal! (How to commit and get them to commit)

§ Don’t clutter your dating life with missed opportunities.

§ There are some things you can do to make sure that you don’t have these situations.

§ Being datable is on the top of the list (that means putting your best foot forward, look good, feel good, confidence are all the key to marketing yourself better)

§ Mentally prepare yourself for every situation, visualize yourself succeeding, believe in your worth, know what you want and go after it

§ You also need to learn how to read body language to get whatever vibe they’re sending your way (when you can read the signals you can react in the way you’re supposed to)

§ Be Interesting, yes, I said it. No one wants to be with someone boring. Have things to talk about, be passionate about something (other than sex), be excited, have good energy … all this is magnetizing!

At the end of the day, just go for it, be confident and have zero expectations. Communicate your thoughts without being pushy and respect their “no” without taking it personally.

www.SingleDatingDiva.com

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Dear Matthew,

10 years ago, my best friend died of cancer. One year after that, one of my friends got stabbed and died. 2 years ago, one of my friends committed suicide. Last year, one of my friends died in a car accident.

I’ve been having a real tough time getting through this. I can’t seem to accept the fact that they are gone.

Sometimes I feel okay, and like I’m making progress. But then I have moments where I get panic attacks and I can’t breathe and all I can do is cry. I get angry and I feel like nobody could ever understand me. I know that most of us have lost somebody. But every time I bring them up, the people around me just don’t seem to want to hear it. It’s like they’ve moved on and I’m just ruining that. Is there something wrong with me because I can’t move on? Do I need professional help?

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Dear Matthew,

My 3-year-old watches unboxing videos of new toys which makes him want to have.  This has led to him being ungrateful for what he has, and when I give him a toy he always asks for that toy as well.

I'm not In a situation where I have much money and I'm struggling to find a job. What should I do?

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Keep Talking! (How to be a great conversationalist)
§ Be resourceful and well read on current issues and trends.

§ Ask questions to find out more about them and find commonality but not generic questions.

§ Be a good listener, paraphrase and give them your full attention (put that phone away!)

§ Use appropriate humor.

Give sincere compliments and be gracious. Say please and thank you.

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Find Suzie Online at www.SingleDatingDiva.com

Safe Dating (How to date safely)

§ Remember that “stranger danger” is real, even when you’re an adult.

§ Dating early on should be in public and tell a friend where you are.

§ Don’t get a false sense of security or believe everything they say/do.

§ Protect your identity and keep your personal information private.

Remember that you don’t have control over whatever you share (pictures, information, etc) once you’ve sent it, so be smart.

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