Too Smart For This

139. In My Selfish Era: How to Put Yourself First [& A Life Update]


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In this episode of Too Smart For This, Alexis takes the listeners on a candid journey through the challenging months that prompted her to prioritize self-care and make some necessary, selfish decisions. Don't miss this inspiring episode as she discusses the power of choosing oneself and the personal growth that can arise from even the toughest of times.


Show Notes

1:00 Embracing adversity and finding the courage to choose yourself

1:47 Setting boundaries and prioritizing yourself/your needs

2:17 Reflecting on the past few months

3:33 You are capable of change

5:05 Spending time with yourself to visualize your future

5:47 Being unapologetic in your personal decisions to create success on your own terms

7:33 Nothing is permanent. Not even your problems.

8:03 Importance of putting yourself first in your relationships

11:16 Using data in the decision-making process over emotions

13:31 Stop arguing for your limitations

14:19 No one can hurt you unless you allow it

15:53 Knowing that you are capable of learning and accomplishing new things

19:16 Sometimes, letting go means loving yourself more than you love them


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