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This week's episode is a conversation about grief as an ongoing, relational experience rather than something to “get over.” In this episode, we explore ambiguous loss, nervous system capacity, and what actually helps when grief doesn’t resolve neatly.
Together, we reflect on:
•Why some forms of grief don’t have clear endings—and why that’s not a failure
•How grief lives in the nervous system and shapes our capacity for connection
•The difference between presence and fixing when someone is grieving
•What it means to stay human, relational, and honest in the presence of loss
This episode invites a slower, more compassionate way of being with grief, one that honors presence over solutions, and meaning over closure.
Read more about grief and ambiguous loss: Grief That Doesn't Resolve
For ongoing practice and deeper learning, I warmly invite you to become a member of The School of Human Connection.
Twice a month, I host live calls where members bring real relationship dilemmas. We slow things down and I'll help you see what's actually happening and how to respond with more integrity, strength and care.
You will find a safe space for live discussions and a supportive community of like-minded, open-hearted humans.
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By Yvette Erasmus4.9
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This week's episode is a conversation about grief as an ongoing, relational experience rather than something to “get over.” In this episode, we explore ambiguous loss, nervous system capacity, and what actually helps when grief doesn’t resolve neatly.
Together, we reflect on:
•Why some forms of grief don’t have clear endings—and why that’s not a failure
•How grief lives in the nervous system and shapes our capacity for connection
•The difference between presence and fixing when someone is grieving
•What it means to stay human, relational, and honest in the presence of loss
This episode invites a slower, more compassionate way of being with grief, one that honors presence over solutions, and meaning over closure.
Read more about grief and ambiguous loss: Grief That Doesn't Resolve
For ongoing practice and deeper learning, I warmly invite you to become a member of The School of Human Connection.
Twice a month, I host live calls where members bring real relationship dilemmas. We slow things down and I'll help you see what's actually happening and how to respond with more integrity, strength and care.
You will find a safe space for live discussions and a supportive community of like-minded, open-hearted humans.
Stay updated on new episodes and resources by subscribing wherever you listen to podcasts or visiting yvetteerasmus.com.
Here are more ways to connect with me:

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