September 20, 2024

#157 Dehoarding dilemmas: Swallow the frog or save the worst til last?

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In this episode, I look at two major – and opposing – strategies for dehoarding: "swallow the frog," where you handle the toughest task first, and "save the worst till last," which focuses on building confidence with easier tasks. I'll discuss the benefits and drawbacks of each approach and offer tips for blending them to fit your unique needs. Join to learn how to break down the overwhelming task of dehoarding into manageable steps.

Swallowing the Frog

Best when preventing access to essential areas (e.g., cooker, bath).

Tackling tough tasks first can improve home functionality and reduce stress.

Saving the Worst Till the Last

Building confidence in dehoarding.

Tasks that are emotionally charged but less visibly impactful (e.g., old photos).

Utilising both approaches based on emotional resilience and situational needs.

Experimentation with both strategies.

Reflect on personality and typical approaches to difficult tasks.

Planning strategies based on task suitability and personal motivation.

Curiosity and trying different methods.

Observing outcomes and refining methods.

Balancing approaches for optimal dehoarding progress.

Embracing flexible planning and adjusting as needed.

Breaking Down Tasks

Breaking tasks into smaller, manageable steps.

Working for shorter, focused periods with breaks to prevent burnout.

Building Confidence

Addressing easier tasks first to build capability for more challenging tasks.

Sorting manageable items before tackling emotionally difficult possessions.

Mixing both "Swallow the Frog" and "Save the Worst Till Last" strategies.

Examination of the psychological impact of task management.

Discussing mental barriers, procrastination, and overwhelm.

Emphasis on efficiency and making progress to avoid demoralisation.

Strategies to manage overwhelming dehoarding tasks

Identifying the "frog."

Two opposite strategies for handling hard tasks.

Resolve tasks early to minimise stress and discomfort.

Breaking tasks into smaller chunks mitigates overwhelming discouragement.

Starting with easier tasks provides steady motivation.

Procrastination perpetuates stress from avoiding major tasks.

Ease into dehoarding with manageable tasks first.

Try both approaches, observe, adapt, and refine.

Examining two strategies for tackling hard tasks in the context of dehoarding: "swallow the frog" (address tough tasks first) vs. saving the worst for last, focusing on their psychological impact on barriers, procrastination, and efficiency.

Completing tasks alleviates stress and builds momentum for future tasks.

Swallowing the frog can be discouraging if tasks are tougher than expected. Break tasks into smaller chunks to avoid demoralisation. Identify and prioritise your most challenging tasks, such as urgent issues or emotionally taxing items.

Starting with smaller tasks provides steady motivation and achievement, offering quick wins that boost morale and maintain long-term productivity.

Procrastination on the most urgent task causes continuous stress and anxiety, overshadowing achievement of smaller tasks.

Start with moderately hard tasks, gradually advancing to harder tasks over time. Adapt approaches based on task suitability.

Start with easier tasks to build confidence when dehoarding, and save emotionally challenging items for later. Use both approaches as needed based on your situation.

Try both approaches and observe which helps you make the most progress. Keep adapting and refining based on your observations.

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