The Best of You

164: Rewriting Your Narrative – What If the Hardest Parts of Your Story Hold the Key to Your Growth?


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What if your story—even the complicated parts—could become a doorway to deeper faith?

In this inspiring conversation, Dr. Alison Cook is joined by author and professor Dr. Esau McCaulley, whose journey is a powerful example of how owning your story—even the hard parts—can lead to growth, healing, and deeper purpose.

Together they explore how to reflect on your past with clarity, how to honor your roots while still moving forward, and how to build a faith and life that reflects who you truly are becoming.

We talk about:

  • How to grow stronger by facing your story with honesty
  • Why your past doesn’t define your future—but it does matter
  • How to forgive and still honor your boundaries
  • The role of family, race, and faith in shaping identity
  • How to live with more purpose by integrating your whole self
  • A hopeful perspective on becoming grounded, resilient, and open to change

    If you’re on a journey of becoming more emotionally and spiritually whole, this episode will leave you feeling inspired, grounded, and more connected to your own growth.


    📚 Learn more about Esau’s work at esaumccaulley.com

    📖 Read his new memoir: How Far to the Promised Land 


    If this episode speaks to you, you’ll also love:

    • Episode 156⁠ — Why Fear Shows Up When You’re About to Grow & How to Break Free from Self-Sabotage with Mary Marantz
    • Episode 163⁠ — Healing Spiritual Wounds: Understanding Abuse in Faith Spaces with Rachel Clinton Chen

      📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here


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