The Best of You

165: Reboot Your Boundaries — A Practical Guide to Help you Reset, Protect Your Peace and Create Space for What Matters Most


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Is summer leaving you more frazzled than refreshed? Between travel, family gatherings, long days, and shifting routines, summer can test your limits in unexpected ways. If you’re feeling stretched thin, resentful, or just plain exhausted—this episode will be your step by step practical guide to resetting your boundaries.


Backed by recent research and years of experience, Dr. Alison walks you through why boundaries are essential for your brain, relationships, and emotional health—and how to set them with clarity and kindness.


In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How healthy boundaries light up your brain
  • The difference between healthy boundaries and controlling behavior
  • Three levels of boundaries—from simple resets to firm protection
  • Five boundary shortcuts you can start using today (with practical scripts!)
  • Why the hardest boundaries are often the ones we set with ourselves
  • If you’re longing for a summer with more peace, more joy, and less emotional exhaustion, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and equipped.


    📥 Get Alison's free printable with the 5 boundary tools mentioned in this episode when you sign up for her weekly email.


    For more on boundaries, check out:

    • Episodes 24 — Boundaries, the Spectrum of Toxicity, and a Note About Evil

    • Episode 25 — Types of “No” Part 1 — How to say “No” in Healthy Relationships

    • Episode 26 — Types of “No” Part 2 — How to say “No” to Toxicity, The Real Meaning of Turn The Other Cheek & How to Form A Boundaries Committee

      📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here

      💬 Got a question? Call 307-429-2525 and leave a message for a future episode.


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        Music by Andy Luiten

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