The Best of You

176: My Reflections on Love in an Age of Violence · Plus Dr. Stephen Macchia on Intimacy with God in a Noisy World


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When the world feels on fire, how do our souls find rest in God alone?

This week’s two-part episode is close to my heart.

In the wake of recent violence, I first pause to reflect on what it means to choose love in an age when outrage feels easier.

From there, I turn to a conversation with my friend and mentor, Dr. Stephen Macchia. Steve has spent decades guiding people into deeper intimacy with God through practices of silence, prayer, and community. Together we explore the barriers distraction creates, why being truly listened to is so healing, and how slowing down opens space for God’s presence in our lives.

This episode is an invitation to lay down outrage, pick up compassion, and step into the quiet spaces where God does His best work.


📥 Grab your 3 free Boundaries For Your Soul resources here 

📚 Books you wont want to miss from Dr. Steven Macchia:

  • Praying the Parables of Jesus by Dr. Steven Macchia
  • Crafting a Rule of Life by Dr. Steven Macchia
  • Here are some other episodes you might like :

    Episode 75: Your Secret Weapon Against Stress & Anxiety - How to Transform Your Mind Through the Power of Prayer

    Episode 88: What to Do When Change Stirs up Anxiety, Uncertainty, or Confusion


    📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here

    💬 Got a question? Call 307-429-2525 and leave a message for a future episode.


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