Kingdom Sexuality

189: Hot Sex Takes: A Candid Chat with a Sex Therapist

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Kyle and Alana had an amazing time interviewing Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online. Tune in as they ask him some of the "hot topic" questions KS gets regularly!


  • 2:56 How do you gain confidence in the bedroom? “Husband wants me to initiate more but I don’t know how/scared”
  • 13:17 How to handle, mostly women, with body insecurities?
  • 22:55 How to increase sex drive for males? “My husband isn’t interested in me sexually”
  • 25:40 How to increase sex drive for females? “I used to want sex before we were married, now I have no drive.”
  • 29:04 How do you deal with periods where you’re not attracted to your spouse? How to tell your spouse? Should you tell your spouse? What to do if your spouse tells you that?
  • 34:55 My husband wants me to __ but I don’t want to OR I am nervous to try that - how to handle these situations? (Wearing lingerie, oral sex, toys, etc)
  • 38:28 How to handle the postpartum period sexually?
  • 42:00 Overcoming pornography in our marriage? How do we go back to a “normal” sex life?
  • 45:35 How to resolve sex drive differences?


    • Links from today’s episode:

    • My Counsellor Online
    • My Counsellor Online YouTube
    • Josh Spurlock.com


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