Kingdom Sexuality

196: Q&A! No Libido, Writing Erotica, & Taking Charge


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Join the KS team as they answer questions that our female followers sent in over on Instagram!


QUESTION TIME STAMPS:

4:12 “How can I switch things up if my spouse doesn’t like lingerie/games/toys/etc?”

7:23 “Newly married, we cannot get him inside of me, how to loosen?”

9:47 “Husband has a very low drive and can go weeks without sex and I can’t- advice?”

16:00 “I’ve been married for a month and I haven’t had a climax, any advice?” 

17:36 “My husband hasn’t finished in over a month now, what do I do?”

19:50 “Ways to put more focus on my husband, make him feel desired?”

23:00 “Why don’t I like kissing more? My husband likes to make out but its so… wet.”

24:32 “How to restore desire during a season of high stress?”

27:34 “Is it normal to have no libido at all? Ways around this to get turned on.”

29:37 “Best advice for first time wedding night sex, worried I won’t be able to relax enough.”

31:32 “Thoughts on writing erotica for my wife to read as foreplay?”

32:48 “How to take the reins more? Not initiating, but to control intimacy more. Feels weird to be in charge and I don’t want to just lay there”


Links from today’s episode:

  • Vaginismus Episode
  • @painfree.intimacy
  • Let’s Get Checked: KINGDOM for 25% off
  • Christian Counselling $25 off your first month with our link!
  • Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduling Sex
  • Spontaneous Desire vs Responsive Desire
  • The Penis Book
  • KS Prayer Bundle
  • Better Sex Through Mindfulness
  • Starting Life Together Bundle
  • Ultimate Wedding Night Guide
  • Awaken Love

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