What is the "orgasm trap"? Why do a lot of people fake orgasms? What can folks do if they have trouble having an orgasm or think they can only orgasm one (or a few) way/s? And how do orgasms change with age? We also answer a sex question about herpes/STI's, and shame. 

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About our guest: Keeley Rankin is a sex and relationship coach, pleasure advocate and a sexy-preneur. She works with individuals and couples who want to embrace their innate desires, build sexual confidence, and fully realize their sexual potential. Keeley received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. For seven years, she worked closely with the world-renowned author and transpersonal psychotherapist who coined the phrase ‘spiritual bypass’, John Welwood. She also specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples. Pre-Covid, she would meet couples in Paris for the a unique-extreme-sexy-connected date night – private sessions aimed to prep the couple for an evening at a sex club. She has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created an Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com/Other links:

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