The Penis Project Podcast: Breaking Taboos in Men’s Sexual Health

202: Premature Ejaculation: Mitch’s Story – Courage, Connection & Control


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In this raw and refreshingly honest episode of The Penis Project podcast, Melissa chats with Mitch—a 21-year-old who opens up about his journey with primary premature ejaculation (PE). From rural farm life and open family chats to medication mishaps and sexual self-esteem struggles, Mitch shares his experience with warmth and humour. 

Mitch talks about: 

  • Growing up with PE and its emotional toll 
    • Navigating sexual intimacy and relationships as a young man 
      • His experience with online men’s health services like Pilot 
        • The turning point that led him to seek help at Restorative Health Clinic 
          • Finding the right treatment—and relief—through personalised care 
          • This episode is a must-listen for any man who's felt alone with PE, and for partners or parents who want to better understand the experience from a younger male’s perspective. 

             In This Episode, We Cover: 

            • What it’s like living with lifelong (primary) premature ejaculation 
              • How a father’s prostate cancer treatment led to a cheeky encounter with penile injections—and eventually helped Mitch seek help 
                • The cost, pros and cons of online health platforms like Pilot 
                  • Why in-person or telehealth consults with a practitioner can make all the difference 
                    • The emotional impact of PE: shame, self-doubt, and how it affects confidence in and out of the bedroom 
                      • The power of humour and honesty in breaking sexual health stigma 
                      • Key Takeaways: 

                        • PE can affect men of all ages—including young blokes—and it’s more common than you think. 
                          • Medication isn’t one-size-fits-all. Finding the right dose and drug with a skilled clinician can be life-changing. 
                            • Open conversations with family, partners, and mates can reduce shame and build resilience. 
                              • Telehealth can be a more accessible, cost-effective way to get specialist support—especially in rural areas. 
                                • Tackling PE early builds long-term sexual confidence and can improve relationships. 
                                • Expert Insight from Melissa Hadley Barrett: 

                                  Premature ejaculation can feel devastating for men, but it’s both common and treatable. We see men every day at Restorative Health Clinic who’ve been told to “just relax” or “it’ll go away with age,” but that doesn’t always happen. Treatment is individual and may include: 

                                  • Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) 
                                    • Behavioural therapy 
                                      • Mindfulness and arousal control strategies 
                                        • Support for partners to reduce pressure and enhance intimacy 
                                        • Every man deserves to enjoy sex without anxiety—and we’re here to help you do just that. 

                                           

                                          Resources & Links: 

                                          • Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic 
                                            • For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au  
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                                                 We love hearing from real people navigating penile health. If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch.  

                                                 

                                                 

                                                Websites: 

                                                https://rshealth.com.au/  All genders 

                                                https://makehardeasy.com.au  

                                                https://melissahadleybarrett.com  

                                                http://prost.com.au/ 

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