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232: Patron Q&A! Navigating Awkward BJs, Our Proposal Stories, & Perimenopause


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Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show!


This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement.


2:50 - Do you and your spouse have any go-to intimacy routines?

4:37 - Ever tried something like “Mouth on Monday” or “Sunday Funday” just to spice things up a bit?

5:32 - How do you balance fun, flirty spontaneity with actually making time for intimacy?

8:08 - What helped you get back on track when connection felt hard?

12:14 - Have you seen God use your struggles to actually bring you closer?

14:55 - Have you or your spouse ever struggled with anxiety? How do you support each other when one of you is feeling overwhelmed or low?

17:34 - Y’all’s opinion on adding food to sex such as strawberries, chocolate sauce or whip cream . Just adding things like that to your sex life

19:35 - Another question is sex during pregnancy my wife is currently 4 months pregnant and she has ups and down with sex drives but the further she is along the more difficult the sex what’s is somethings to try

24:18 - Here's another one. What is perimenopause and how does it affect sex drive?

29:45 - Can perimenopause affect your ability to orgasm?

32:15 - How do you not make bjs feel so awkward? It's it a confidence thing or do you just embrace the awkwardness and go for it?

34:24 - For Tiera: can you talk a little bit about the impact that hormones during pregnancy/breastfeeding have on libido?

37:30 - For Alana: how did you get into photography? What kind of photography do you do?

38:50 - For Kyle: what's some of your favorite TV shows and why?

41:50 - For all of you: I'd love to hear how you all met your spouses and the proposal stories 🥰


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