May 29, 2023

237: Theresa A. revisits

58 minutes

🔸 "You will not receive love, just give up" on romance.

🔹 Parts:

P: "Just give up" is persistent but not dramatic. In the head, arms crossed, cold, afraid of wasting time and the disappointment from:

E: Wants more love than she gets, feels dismissed, outside, an inconvenience. Too little, too boring, has to do everything herself. Was this the 4yo?

E: 7 Year old, similar.

🎓 What I'd like to do differently:
Theresa's making this easy for me. I could push back on some of the analyzing, but it doesn't seem to be interfering much with the work. And my own analyzing parts like the company.

I didn't ask the age of first exile, and stayed confused about who was who when another entered. I was wanting to stay open to it also being a protector.

I wonder if we bypassed a protector that would be fighting the "give up" protector.
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