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In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss:

So much of the dating advice space is about spotting red flags (we both have programs about this) but there is something so empowering to be able to identify green flags.

Is she grounded? An empowered feminine woman will be able to experience a wide array of emotions and stay present in her body. Because she is able to be with her own emotions and maintain responsibility for them, she can let you see her more deeply. There is an understanding that any support a man provides at that moment isn’t to fix or save her but to connect with her in a way that creates safety for her to soften (and heal) even more. In this way, she becomes even more powerful and grounded.

Is she “closed off” or guarded? An empowered feminine woman will be willing to express her emotions, thoughts, needs, dreams, and desires (over time) with a potential partner because it is of service to her selecting a partner that is a good fit to them- someone who has similar desires and is willing to build the relationship they both want. Wounded feminine energy will often struggle with this level of transparency because they have an activated wound of being chosen. Wounded masculine energy will need to keep this information hidden because they may not feel confident in surrendering control of the outcome.

Is she clear on what she desires? An empowered feminine woman has some idea of the types of experiences that feel best for her and that she wants to create in her life/with a partner. She may have an idea of qualities that a good fit for her vision might have and yet you, as the masculine, may have ideas that contribute beyond what she’s even considered and enhance her vision 10x. There’s no need to shapeshift when you know what a good fit looks/feels like.

Trust takes time. And knowing what you need/want to be the happiest, most fulfilled version of yourself will give you the right information to share in the early stages of dating to find the right fit sooner.

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