You can tell a lot about a woman by her closet—and even more by how she carries herself. If your wardrobe is full of 'someday clothes,' if you hide behind black because it feels safer, or if you keep waiting until the weight comes off to buy something you love… that's not style, that's self-abandonment.

The truth is, the way we dress, the way we see our bodies, and the way we show up in the world all reflect one simple choice: are you choosing yourself—or not?

In this episode, I'm breaking down 10 powerful signs you're not choosing YOU, and how it's quietly draining your style, your body image, and your confidence. Because until you stop abandoning yourself, you'll never feel fully alive in your own skin.

It's time to reclaim your voice, your wardrobe, and your worth—starting right here.

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If this message speaks to you, then you already know it's time to stop waiting and start choosing YOU. That's exactly what I help women do in The Midlife Reset — my transformational course designed to help you rediscover your style, reconnect with your body, and reclaim your confidence so you can finally live Wildly. We start 9/1/25

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