You can tell a lot about a woman by her closet—and even more by how she carries herself. If your wardrobe is full of ‘someday clothes,’ if you hide behind black because it feels safer, or if you keep waiting until the weight comes off to buy something you love… that’s not style, that’s self-abandonment.

The truth is, the way we dress, the way we see our bodies, and the way we show up in the world all reflect one simple choice: are you choosing yourself—or not?

In this episode, I’m breaking down 10 powerful signs you’re not choosing YOU, and how it’s quietly draining your style, your body image, and your confidence. Because until you stop abandoning yourself, you’ll never feel fully alive in your own skin.

It’s time to reclaim your voice, your wardrobe, and your worth—starting right here.

Ready for Your Midlife Reset?

If this message speaks to you, then you already know it’s time to stop waiting and start choosing YOU. That’s exactly what I help women do in The Midlife Reset — my transformational course designed to help you rediscover your style, reconnect with your body, and reclaim your confidence so you can finally live Wildly. We start 9/1/25

Sign up here: https://tinyurl.com/mymidlifereset

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For too long, you’ve been waiting — for approval, for permission, for someone else to choose you. But the truth? The most magnetic, powerful, unstoppable women are the ones who choose themselves.

So, if you’re ready to stop waiting and start living unapologetically—you’re in the right place.

Heard from a client of the 21-Day Feel Wildly Alive Challenge: “Mary Michele’s words this morning brought some clarity for me. Today’s message to “choose you” and not feeling powerless, were yes and wow moments for me. A real breakthrough moment for me…”

Ready for Your Midlife Reset?

If this message speaks to you, then you already know it’s time to stop waiting and start choosing YOU. That’s exactly what I help women do in The Midlife Reset — my transformational course designed to help you rediscover your style, reconnect with your body, and reclaim your confidence so you can finally live Wildly. We start 9/1/25.

Sign up here: https://tinyurl.com/themidlifereset

Come join us in the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenlivingwildlyalive

Follow me on IG @marymicheleofficial and @WomenLivingWildlyAlive

Read the blog on Substack: https://womenlivingwildlyalive.substack.com/

In this soothing and soulful episode of Women Living Wildly Alive, I sit down with the ever- inspiring Kimberly Wilson—psychotherapist, eco-fashion designer, author, and host of the Tranquility du Jour podcast. We dive into the art of cultivating calm, navigating midlife transitions with grace, and embracing self-care as a sacred practice (not a guilty pleasure!). Kimberly shares her favorite rituals, reflections on slow living, and the power of journaling, creativity, and cozy aesthetics to create a life of beauty and balance. Whether you're in the midst of reinvention or simply craving more peace, this conversation is your gentle reminder that tranquility is not only possible—it’s essential.

Learn more about Kimberly and get her 15 Simple Practices to Prioritize Self-Care here: kimberlywilson.com

If you’re ready for your midlife mind-body-style reset, join me for the 21-Day Feel Wildly Alive Challenge. We start August 11th - get in NOW! https://tinyurl.com/WILDLY21

Come join us in the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenlivingwildlyalive

Follow me on IG @marymicheleofficial and @WomenLivingWildlyAlive

Read the blog on Substack: https://womenlivingwildlyalive.substack.com/

Today’s episode is for every woman who has stood in front of a full closet… and felt completely lost.

Let’s talk about that moment — You open your closet. It’s full. Overflowing, even. And yet…

You sigh. You feel stuck. You have “nothing to wear.” Sound familiar?

Well I’ve got news for you — the problem isn’t your body. It’s not your age. And no, you don’t need to buy another black top. Trust me.

Today, we’re going to break dow 7 hidden reasons you feel stuck in a style rut—plus how to break free and feel wildly alive again.

If you’re ready for your style reset, join me for the 21-Day Feel Wildly Alive Challenge. We start August 11th - get in NOW! https://tinyurl.com/WILDLY21

Come join us in the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenlivingwildlyalive

Follow me on IG @marymicheleofficial and @WomenLivingWildlyAlive Read the blog on Substack: https://womenlivingwildlyalive.substack.com/

The Awaken Series

In this powerful kickoff to The Awaken Series, I’m sharing the moment I realized I was no longer truly living—I was just surviving. On the outside, everything looked “fine.” But inside, I was flatlining. Overwhelmed, overgiving, disconnected from my body, my style, and myself.

This is the story of how I hit the reset button—not just on my wardrobe, but on my identity. I’ll share the exact moment I saw my reflection and didn’t recognize the woman staring back… and how that wake-up call changed everything.

We’ll talk about why “fine” is often a mask for burnout, why midlife is the time to reclaim your spark, and how style became the surprising tool that brought me back to life.

Grab your free Midlife Reset Starter Kit Inside, I’ll guide you through the first 3 steps to reclaim your energy, your clarity, and your confidence.

Next episode: I’ll be sharing the boldest move I made during my reset—letting my gray hair grow in—and why it was about so much more than hair.

Other Podcasts to Listen to:

Understanding the Cycle of Style Ep. 116: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/116-understanding-the-cycle-of-your-style/id1560924181?i=1000577998077

Come join us in the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenlivingwildlyalive

Follow me on IG @marymicheleofficial and @WomenLivingWildlyAlive

Read the blog on Substack: https://womenlivingwildlyalive.substack.com/

Today, I’m letting you in on something I call The Confidence Code™ — a simple 3-step ritual that changes everything about how you show up.

Because here’s the truth: Confidence isn’t something you wait for. It’s something you wear.

I’m breaking down The Confidence Code™—my simple 3-step formula to help you feel fabulous in your skin, no matter your age, size, or season of life.

Inside this episode you’ll learn:

• How to highlight your best features and actually see them
• The style shift that instantly boosts your confidence
• Mindset moves to silence your inner critic and feel powerful again

If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and wondered where your sparkle went—this is for you.

Tune in and unlock your confidence today. Because midlife isn’t a crisis—it’s your comeback.

✨ Want to go deeper? Join me inside Body Image Breakthrough — my 30-day transformational experience for women ready to stop playing small and start showing up like the radiant, powerful force they are. You’ll rewrite your relationship with your body — and finally feel at home in your skin. We begin June 15th!

Get all the details here: https://stylefindersos.com/body-image-breakthrough/

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today: https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

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Think your confidence faded with your waistline or youth? Think again. In this eye-opening episode, I’m revealing 5 subtle ways midlife women unknowingly sabotage their self-confidence—and what to do instead.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, small, or invisible, this is your invitation to reclaim your power—no makeover required.

• Listen now and learn how to stop dimming your own light.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• Spot the Sneaky Saboteurs – How everyday habits like negative self-talk, comparison spirals, and style “safe zones” quietly erode your confidence.
• Flip the Script – Concrete mindset shifts to transform your inner dialogue from “I can’t” to “Watch me.”
• The one mindset tweak that can instantly make you feel more powerful, visible, and self-assured in midlife.

Want to go deeper?

Join me inside Body Image Breakthrough — my 30-day transformational experience for women ready to stop playing small and start showing up like the radiant, powerful force they are. You’ll rewrite your relationship with your body — and finally feel at home in your skin. We begin June 15th!

Get all the details here: https://stylefindersos.com/body-image-breakthrough/

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today: https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/

Shop with Me: https://shopstylefinder.com/

Think aging is just about wrinkles and gray hair? Think again. In this powerful episode, Mary Michele busts the myths about what really makes women over 50 feel (and look) older—and spoiler alert: it’s not your birthday candles.

From the silent stressors to the style mistakes stealing your sparkle, she reveals the real culprits accelerating the aging process—and how to reclaim your glow with confidence, joy, and unapologetic self-expression.

What You’ll Learn: - The 7 surprising things aging you faster than time - The toll of stress and go-go-go living - Why joy is your anti-aging secret weapon - The toxic thought that’s aging you overnight - The magic of shifting from maintenance to radiance

Power Quote: “You don’t need to look younger. You need to feel wildly alive.”

Listen now to rewrite the rules of aging—on your terms.

If today’s episode hit home and you’re tired of feeling like your body is the problem, it’s time for a radical shift. Body Image Breakthrough is a 30-day transformation designed to help you stop the self-sabotage, ditch the guilt, and finally feel good in your skin—no matter your age, weight, or size.

This isn’t about losing pounds. It’s about losing the shame that’s been holding you back.https://stylefindersos.com/body-image-breakthrough/

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today: https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Ready to Find Your Signature Style? Our Micro Course is for you! https://findyoursignaturestyle.com

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In this episode, we’re celebrating the woman who raised the bride—you! That’s right, we’re talking all things Mother of the Bride. Because after your daughter walks down the aisle, all eyes are on you. Your dress speaks volumes, so let’s make sure it says chic, confident, and effortlessly stunning.

From decoding wedding vibes and navigating color palettes to ensuring your outfit flatters from every angle (hello, photos!), you’ll walk away knowing exactly what to wear, what to skip, and how to show up as the radiant, elegant woman you are.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: ● The #1 mistake most mothers of the bride don’t realize they’re making ● How to show up stylishly without stealing the spotlight ● The secret to choosing the dress that makes you feel unstoppable ● What every camera-ready outfit has in common ● The finishing touches that make you unforgettable

Be sure to grab my styling guide to Mother of the Bride Dresses here: ​​https://www.facebook.com/groups/diaryofamidlifewoman

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today: https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Ready to Find Your Signature Style? Our Micro Course is for you! https://findyoursignaturestyle.com

Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/

Shop with Me: https://shopstylefinder.com/

Have you ever felt like you had to chase the trends or ‘figure out’ your style? I’m here to tell you that you already have everything you need inside you. Your true style isn’t something you create from scratch; it’s something you uncover, refine, and reclaim.

Today, we’re diving into how your style is a reflection of who you are from the inside out— your values, your lifestyle, your energy — and why midlife is the perfect time to cultivate a style that feels like home. Let’s get started!

In this episode I’m sharing: ● What signature style really means (hint: it’s not trends) ● How your style reflects your values, lifestyle, and identity ● Why midlife is the best time to discover your true style

Today, I’m going to show you why your signature style isn’t something you have to ‘figure out.’ It’s something that’s already within you — waiting to be revealed.

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today: https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Ready to Find Your Signature Style? Our Micro Course is for you! https://findyoursignaturestyle.com

Join the conversation in our Facebook Group: ​​https://www.facebook.com/groups/diaryofamidlifewoman

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