The Everyday Style School

Have you ever felt like you were holding yourself back? In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Tara Mohr, the bestselling author of "Playing Big: Practical Wisdom for Women Who Want to Speak Up, Create, and Lead." Together, we dive deep into why so many of us (yes, me included!) find ourselves "playing small" in both our professional and personal lives.

From staying quiet in meetings to talking ourselves out of opportunities, we explore how these patterns show up in everything we do – even in our style choices! As someone who's personally been transformed by Tara's work, I couldn't wait to bring her wisdom to the Everyday Style community and explore how playing small impacts everything from our careers to our closets.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why even successful women often find themselves "playing small" and the surprising ways this shows up in our everyday lives.
• How to recognize the difference between our inner critic and our inner mentor.
• The fascinating connection between personal style and playing big – and how what we wear can actually help us step into our full potential.
• How to recognize when you're talking yourself out of opportunities, whether it's in the boardroom or your bedroom closet.
• Real strategies from Tara's internationally acclaimed Playing Big leadership program that you can start using today to show up more confidently in all areas of your life

I hope this episode helps you recognize those moments when you're playing small and gives you the courage to step into your full potential – whether that's speaking up in meetings, rocking that bold outfit you've been afraid to wear, or finally going after that big dream you've been keeping quiet. If I can go from being too afraid to reach out to my dream podcast guest to having this amazing conversation with Tara, just imagine what you can do when you decide to play big!

Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/tara-mohr

Do you have a favorite way to buy clothes? Do you prefer to shop online, with a glass of wine and no bra? Or do you like to put on pants and actually go to the store? When it comes to building a fabulous, functional wardrobe, is there a "best way to shop? That’s what this episode is all about!

In a previous episode, I shared the difference between Hunting and Gathering, two common approaches to shopping. Today, we're digging a little deeper into just how we build our wardrobes, taking on online vs in-store shopping, and discovering whether one is better than the other.

I'm sharing the pros and cons of each, and times where one shopping strategy has a clear advantage.

I'm also breaking down how they stack up when it comes to saving time, saving money, building a quality wardrobe, and building a stylish wardrobe.

I hope these tips inspire you to be thoughtful about the way you shop, so you can end up with a wardrobe that's perfect for you.

In This Episode:

• The pros and cons of in-store and online shopping
• When online shopping is a better idea, and when in-store shopping is a better move.
• The one item that you should buy in-store (when at all possible)

Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/online-instore-shopping

Whether you're dealing with cool mornings that turn into warm afternoons or you're stuck in a Summer rut while waiting for Fall, this time of year can be a real challenge for getting dressed.

To help you make the most of fashion's best season, I've got a few simple strategies that will help you look like fall, while you're still feeling like summer. Plus, I'm sharing some key pieces from my own closet that have made this seasonal shift smoother and more stylish.

Even if fall has already arrived where you are, you can use these strategies and pieces for any transitional weather--and these crazy weeks will happen again next week, so be prepared!

In This Episode:

• Four simple steps to transition your wardrobe through changing seasons
• Where most women go wrong when it comes to layering, and how you can fix it
• My 5 essential pieces for transitional weather

I hope these tips and pieces inspire you to tackle your wardrobe transitions with confidence. Remember, there's no bad weather, only bad clothing, so make sure your closet has the pieces you need to get dressed every day, no matter what's going on outside!

Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/fall-transition-pieces

One of my pet peeves is experts who appear to know it all and never struggle. And in our Instagram-filtered world, this is only getting worse. But guess what? Everyone has their off days!

As a wardrobe stylist with over 20 years of experience, I believe in the power of sharing our challenges to inspire and empower others, to let you know that, if you're struggling with your wardrobe, you're not alone. Because of that, today I'm sharing my personal style struggles and the steps I'm taking to overcome them. 

I share my own experiences with body changes and how I went back to basics to reassess what works for my current shape. I also talk about how I tackled my shoe situation to elevate my outfits. Awareness is the first step to making meaningful changes!

I hope these takeaways resonate with you and encourage you to embrace your own style journey. 

In This Episode:

• Experts, including wardrobe stylists, also face struggles and challenges - you're not alone!
• The importance of giving yourself grace when dealing with body changes, and to actively seek solutions rather than remaining stuck in frustration.
• Upgrading foundational garments, like underwear, can significantly improve how clothes fit and feel - it's worth the effort to find the right styles.
• Reassess your wardrobe and be mindful of how your body shape and style preferences may have changed over time.
• How to build a more satisfying and functional wardrobe by identifying the reasons behind your style struggles.

Your wardrobe should be a source of joy and confidence. Remember, everything in style is "figureoutable", but it starts with identifying the root of your struggles and being willing to put in the work to find solutions. 

Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/my-style-struggles

If you’re ready to update your Fall Wardrobe but don’t know where to start, I’ve got you covered!

In this episode, I'm sharing 10 Fall trends from the runway that you can work into your everyday life. Whether you're heading to work, dinner with friends, or just running to the grocery store.

Listen to find out what’s big for the season and how you can easily add these trending pieces to your real-life wardrobe without having to do a major closet overhaul. Plus, I share some practical tips for making it easy to keep your wardrobe looking fresh and current. 

Need more help getting your wardrobe looking current? Many of these styles are featured in our Fall 2024 Capsule Wardrobe Guide. The Guide shows you how to combine 39 pieces (mostly basics, with a few trends peppered in) to create over 200 fab Fall outfits.

The Guide is available in the Style Circle membership, which also includes our private member-only podcast, style masterclasses, outfit calendars, the community, member style coaching opportunities, and more. Join the membership and get everything you need to make style easy.

I hope this episode gives you some insight into what’s big this season and gives you some practical tips for making it easy to keep your wardrobe looking fresh and current.

Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/fall-trends-2024

"Style is for everybody and every body" is one of the core values here at Everyday Style. However, we know that, in a society that often dictates beauty standards based on size and shape, we can all feel left out of the conversation at times.

In this conversation with stylist Katie Winnin, we talked about the challenges faced by plus size women in the fashion industry. Katie shared how her personal journey as a plus size woman influenced her career as a stylist dedicated to empowering the plus size community.

Katie highlighted the common mistakes plus size women can make when it comes to style, and emphasized the need to explore personal style rather than blindly following trends. She also addressed the misconception that cute clothes are not available for plus size women, challenging the idea that certain body sizes are not deserving of fashionable clothing.

We delved into the reasons why plus size women may hesitate to invest in their personal style, including waiting to achieve a certain body size. Katie emphasized the importance of self-acceptance and breaking free from societal norms that dictate what is considered fashionable for different body sizes.

Even if you aren't plus size, this conversation is a reminder that style is not limited by size or shape, and everyone deserves to feel confident and beautiful in the clothes they wear.

In This Episode:

• Katie's personal journey in the fashion industry
• The challenges plus size women can face in finding clothing that fits well and represents their own style due to limited options in stores.
• The importance of representation in the fashion industry.
• Common style mistakes that plus size women can make, including mirroring someone else's style too closely and only dressing for trends.
• Katie's top clothing brand recommendations 

Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/katie-winnen

Each week, the Everyday Style inbox is inundated with style questions and suggestions for podcast topics.  So today I'm going to answer some of the questions that we receive time and time again, or that address common issues that we can all face.

From finding the perfect white t-shirt to investing in comfortable shoes for tricky feet, we cover a range of topics to help women feel confident and stylish in their everyday lives.

If you have a more specific question that we haven't covered here, don't forget that the feedback you get for your personal style issues is just one of the incredible benefits of the Style Circle membership - find out more and join our community.

In This Episode:

• Where can you find a good quality white t-shirt that will last? Plus, practical advice on caring for it.
• Do small-busted women need to spend a lot on bras?
• How to wear colors that don't suit your skin tone.
• My advice on choosing shoe styles based on personal preference and comfort rather than trends.
• The difference between comfortable shoes and comfort shoes, and the importance of understanding your own foot needs.
• The individual style advice that is available in the Style Circle membership.

Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/your-style-questions  

I’ve talked many times before about how you can dress for the day you want to have, and how you can use your wardrobe to help reach your goals. And while I know without a shadow of a doubt that the clothes you wear can be an incredibly powerful tool when used deliberately, I know there are things your wardrobe simply can't do.

In my styling career, I've tried to be mindful of setting realistic expectations for clients. My goal is about celebrating your current self while working towards the life you want.

Remember, your wardrobe is a tool to enhance your journey, not a magic wand to change who you are. Nonetheless, there are some powerful ways your clothes can impact your life.

So, let's set some expectations straight and explore the magic of dressing well, as I share three things your wardrobe can and can’t do for you.

In This Episode:

• Some amazing feedback from a member of the Style Circle community.
• Clothes can enhance your mood, not replace professional help.
• Buying new clothes won't magically transform you into a different person. Your actions and mindset matter more than the clothes you wear.
• Realistic expectations about what your wardrobe can do for your body are crucial for embracing your unique style journey.

As I mentioned in the show, this summer we are doing a series in the members-only podcast, sharing simple tips to dress your most challenging body parts. The Extra Credit podcast is just one of the incredible benefits of being a Stye Circle member - find out more and join our community, because this is one series that you don't want to miss.

Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/what-clothes-do-for-you

If you’re ready to update your Summer Wardrobe but don’t know where to start, I’ve got you covered!

It’s time for another one of our trend episodes, this is where I lay out the 10 wearable trends I’ve seen for Summer 2024. As always, many of the trends we see in Summer are continuations of Spring, so if you want to check those out, go back and listen to Episode 183: 10 Wearable Trends for Spring 2023. 

In this episode, you’ll learn what’s big for the season, and how you can add these trending pieces to your real-life wardrobe without looking like you’re trying to relive your youth. Listen as I share some practical tips for making it easy to keep your wardrobe looking fresh and current. 

Full show notes and resources: http://youreverydaystyle.com/summer-trends-2024

If you've listened to more than one episode of this podcast, you'll know that I talk a lot about being intentional about the clothes you buy and wear. In particular, I discuss getting dressed with intention and being purposeful about honing and developing your style.

However, there's another aspect of style where intentionality is essential—and it's one that often gets overlooked—and that’s wardrobe building. Have you ever considered the process you use to get clothes into your closet? 

In my experience, most people naturally adopt one of two wardrobe-building strategies: hunting (shopping with a plan) or gathering (browsing for pieces that catch their eye). 

With that in mind, in this episode, I present the pros and cons of each approach, detailing scenarios where hunting and gathering are recommended.

Is one approach truly better than the other? Listen to the episode to find out!

In This Episode:

• Why your closet should be more like a dinner party than a plane ride
• What hunting and gathering mean when it comes to your wardrobe
• Times you should be hunting and times when gathering is a better strategy
• My personal approach to hunting and gathering and how you can start today

Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/hunting-gathering