Episode 710 - You’ve heard the cliché: “Love happens when you’re not looking.”

As annoying as it sounds, it’s actually true — and here’s why.You don’t attract what you want. You attract what you are.

If you’re showing up in energy of lack, neediness, or unworthiness, you’ll keep attracting partners who reflect that back to you. But when you shift your identity, embody love, and live from wholeness — your ideal relationship naturally shows up.In this podcast, you’ll learn:✅ Why wanting love actually pushes it away✅ The truth about “you attract what you are”✅ Why the “not looking” cliché is rooted in energy and frequency✅ How to align your self-concept so you become magnetic to the relationship you desireLove doesn’t arrive when you chase it. It arrives when you become it.Ready to Get Unstuck? Apply for 1:1 coaching here: https://www.heatherhakes.com/breakthrough-callMY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/ CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakesInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/ ✅ 🤯 Free video training to help reprogram your subconscious mind ➡ www.heatherhakes.com