February 23, 2025

305. Make Love Not Porn - Cindy Gallop

55 minutes

In this engaging conversation, Cindy Gallop shares her journey from a successful marketing career to founding Make Love Not Porn, a platform aimed at normalizing and destigmatizing sex through real-world demonstrations. She discusses the challenges faced in the adult content industry, the importance of communication in sexual relationships, and how her platform has positively impacted countless lives. Gallop emphasizes the need for societal change regarding sexual attitudes and encourages open discussions about sex to foster healthier relationships. In this conversation, Cindy Gallop and Dr. Kelly Casperson discuss the importance of communication in relationships, particularly in the context of sexual health and empowerment. They explore how women can take charge of their sexual experiences, the significance of self-care in midlife, and the vision for Make Love Not Porn as a platform for positive sexual education. They also address the urgent need to combat rape culture and the importance of funding female-led initiatives to create safer online spaces.

Takeaways

Without good sex ed, porn becomes the sex ed default

Cindy Gallop's background in marketing aids her current mission.

Make Love Not Porn was born from personal experiences with younger partners.

The platform aims to provide real-world sex education.

Gallop highlights the challenges of operating in the adult content space.

Communication is key to great sexual experiences.

The platform has changed many lives and saved relationships.

Gallop encourages people to talk about sex openly.

She believes in empowering individuals to create change.

The importance of complimenting partners to enhance intimacy.

Change in sexual attitudes requires collective micro-actions. Communication through demonstration is key in relationships.

Women should embrace their sexuality and use tools like vibrators without fear.

Lube enhances sexual experiences and should be normalized.

Midlife can be a time of empowerment and self-discovery.

It's essential to prioritize personal happiness and desires.

Women are often conditioned to prioritize others' happiness over their own.

Make Love Not Porn aims to change perceptions of consensual sex.

Sex education should be accessible and age-appropriate for all.

Funding female founders can lead to safer online environments.

Creating safe spaces for open conversations about sex is crucial.

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