Not For Everyone

31. Jess Thots: The Late Bloomer's Guide to Confident Sex and Dating


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In her final days before turning 32, Jess reflects on what it means to be fun, especially having been a late bloomer in a lot of aspects of traditional American life. Somehow it's been both a help and a hindrance to her self confidence - who else wants their mommy whenever they enter a sketchy club or party? Children of immigrants please stand up!

This leads into an exploration of two age-old questions: first, how to conceptualize regret, and next, how to tell the difference between anxiety and intuition. Jess has touched on these topics before and promised to provide links, so here they are:

  • NFE Ep. 27 touches on breaking old patterns
  • NFE Ep. 13 touches on how to build your intuition
  • Peaking Ep. 3 on being a late bloomer and dating anxiety
  • No boring dudes meet 🤝 more boring relationships! Plus, a nod to Love Island and an update on her creative projects - including a recent behavioral health industry podcast Mind Your Business. The content never ends; follow Jess on threads!

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