Financial Coaching for Women: How To Budget, Manage Money, Pay Off Debt, Save Money, Paycheck Plans

347 | Bootcamp Day 1: Why You Make Good Money But Have Nothing to Show for It


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Ever feel like you’re earning good money but somehow have nothing to show for it? You’re not alone! This episode dives into the five reasons why this might be happening and how to start flipping the script. From systems and goals to managing impulse spending and resisting the PTA's surprise volleyball fundraiser, we’ve got practical tips and relatable laughs to help you take control of your finances.


Key Takeaways:

Reason #1: No System

  • Money without a system is like laundry without a schedule—chaos!
  • It’s not just about a budget but a budget system.

  • Reason #2: Not Paying Attention

    • Ignoring your bank account doesn’t make problems disappear.
    • It’s time to take a guilt-free, honest look at your spending.

    • Reason #3: No Goals

      • Without clear goals, money just slips away.
      • Rediscover your “why” to stay motivated.

      • Reason #4: Letting Others Decide

        • Stop being reactive. Whether it’s kids, coworkers, or subscription services—take back control.
        • Practice saying “no” or “not right now” (we share some creative ways to do it!).

        • Reason #5: Spending Without a Purpose

          • Spending is fine—but let’s make it intentional.
          • Separate spending accounts can help reduce the overwhelm and prevent accidental overspending.

          • Homework:

            Print out your bank statement for one month (avoid holiday months for more accuracy). Grab your highlighters, categorize your spending, and find your biggest money leaks. This step helps you build a realistic and clear budget moving forward.


            Fun Moment:

            Shana shared her favorite no-fail strategy for handling her kids’ impulse asks: “Go ask your dad!” Vanessa chimed in with her Amazon “save for later” folder that rivals most people's retirement accounts.


            Resources Mentioned:

            Personalized Budget System: Head to https://www.budgetbesties.com/budget to grab the new 2025 version!

            Also, sign up for the Money Makeover Bootcamp at https://www.budgetbesties.com/bootcamp

            Tools we love: Ally Bank, SoFi, and your local credit union for managing multiple accounts without fees.


            Connect With Us:

            Website: budgetbesties.com

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            Financial Coaching for Women: How To Budget, Manage Money, Pay Off Debt, Save Money, Paycheck PlansBy Vanessa and Shana | Budget Besties | Bougie On A Budget | Dave Ramsey Fans

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