Scott and Troy talk about our propensity to expect our lives as well as others to change more quickly than we imagine. That the stories we tell we often tell ourselves are not true. That our technology gives us a false sense because we can find answers instantly. Yet our development as humans is never instant, it is a process that takes longer than we expect. When we start to live in this truth we give ourselves grace to grow, but others as well. Along the way we develop patience and the ability to wait.