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Sex Questions Answered: Rapid Fire Round

It’s our 100th episode! Yay us!

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And speaking of questions, we’re going to be answering 100 sex and relationship questions to celebrate our 100th episode. We’ve been collecting so many questions from you and we want to answer as many as possible so we’ll be doing a rapid fire round today and I’ll do my best to answer as many as possible. We’ll probably have to continue in next week’s episode.

Some of these questions come from teens and some come from grandparents, so it’s quite a wide range.

TL;DR - 38 Sex Questions Answered

Pre-cum & pregnancy – Yes, it can cause pregnancy.

Birth control & weight – Temporary for some; options exist.

Penis size & vaginal fit – The body adapts; cervix “tents” during arousal.

Uneven breasts – Totally normal (like sisters, not twins).

Jealous kids – Normalize feelings, focus on behaviour.

Orgasms & positions – Try stomach grinding or positions with clitoral contact.

Vaginal douching – Skip it! Your vagina is self-cleaning.

Discharge & clots – Know what’s normal; check with a doctor if it changes.

Period pain relief – Explore hormonal & non-hormonal options.

Emergency contraception (Plan B) – Works best within 72 hours; no long-term effects known (but always consult with your doctor).

Mucky penis? – Skip oral & see a doctor. Could be an STI.

Scent, taste, and self-consciousness – Bodies vary and many love natural scent.

Virgin at 26? – Totally okay. There’s no timeline.

Sex after breastfeeding – Prioritize you, build anticipation, and receive more.

Swinging? – Jess & Brandon don’t, but they’re open and nonjudgmental.

Sex drive mismatches – Aim for mutual satisfaction, not compromise or control.

Same fight over & over? – Change the how, not just the what.

And so much more...

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1. Can pre cum get you pregnant?

Yes - it can. If there is sperm present in the urethral tract, pre-cum can carry this sperm into the vagina and it can eventually meet with an egg.

2. Does the birth control pill make you gain weight?

People report that it does, but research from 44 studies suggests that it’s temporary — perhaps a side effect of fluid retention. But ultimately, you know your body so if hormonal birth control is affecting your energy, sleep, mood,