Selling the Couch

386: Why I Don’t Want To Be Social Media Famous


Listen Later

I’ve thought a lot about this topic and want to share more about it today. You might wonder why I don’t want to become social media famous since being active in thought leadership and content creation seems to require a certain degree of social media involvement. People “hang out” on social media platforms, but my impact on the world is not dependent on being a social media influencer. Let’s explore this topic!

You’ll Learn:

  • Fame is more accessible than ever today.
  • The path I’ve chosen values peace, depth, and privacy over chasing online recognition.
  • Three key reasons why I don’t seek social media fame (and powerful reflection questions for you to consider):
  • The illusion of fame as a solution to personal insecurities
  • The lesson: If you aren’t grounded before you attract attention, more attention will only amplify your struggles.
  • The emotional toll of public exposure
  • The lesson: When you have a platform, you aren’t simply sharing content, but you are influencing people’s emotions, choices, and mental health. 
  • The erosion of personal privacy
  • The lesson: Privacy is precious, and I want to build a business that supports my life, not one that makes me feel like I’m on display. 
  • My thoughts here are influenced by an impactful 2007 blog post by Tim Ferriss. You can check it out here

Resources:

Interested in becoming part of our affiliate program? Learn more!

Want to launch your online course?

Please check out our free 7-Day Course Creator Starter Kit for Therapists at https://sellingthecouch.com/coursekit.

If you are a seasoned therapist who wants to move from clinical to online course income, we have a specific mastermind for you. We meet together to build, grow, and scale our online courses. You can learn more at https://sellingthecouch.com/mastermind.

Mentioned in this episode:

Try Quiet Builder!

📬 The Quiet Builder: A premium newsletter for therapists, founders & leaders building thoughtful work + lives.

The Quiet Builder

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Selling the CouchBy Melvin Varghese, PhD

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

330 ratings


More shows like Selling the Couch

View all
The Moth by The Moth

The Moth

27,080 Listeners

The Tim Ferriss Show by Tim Ferriss: Bestselling Author, Human Guinea Pig

The Tim Ferriss Show

16,062 Listeners

Hidden Brain by Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam

Hidden Brain

43,334 Listeners

Therapy Chat by Laura Reagan, LCSW-C

Therapy Chat

674 Listeners

10% Happier with Dan Harris by 10% Happier

10% Happier with Dan Harris

12,636 Listeners

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson by Rick Hanson, Ph.D., Forrest Hanson

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

2,463 Listeners

Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel by Esther Perel Global Media

Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

14,904 Listeners

The Modern Therapist's Survival Guide with Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy by Curt Widhalm, LMFT and Katie Vernoy, LMFT

The Modern Therapist's Survival Guide with Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy

241 Listeners

Suze Orman's Women & Money (And Everyone Smart Enough To Listen) by Suze Orman Media

Suze Orman's Women & Money (And Everyone Smart Enough To Listen)

359 Listeners

Notice That by Jen Savage, Melissa Benintendi, and Bridger Falkenstien

Notice That

312 Listeners

A Little Bit Culty by Sarah Edmondson & Anthony “Nippy” Ames

A Little Bit Culty

2,823 Listeners

Good Inside with Dr. Becky by Dr. Becky Kennedy

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

4,440 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Glennon Doyle and Audacy

We Can Do Hard Things

41,391 Listeners

Financial Feminist by Her First $100K | YAP Media

Financial Feminist

6,294 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

19,371 Listeners