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42. Our Deep Need for Belonging


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This episode was sparked by a question I received on Instagram: Can you talk about the need for belonging, how our experiences growing up affect it, and how we can repair it in adulthood?

Belonging is foundational to who we are, yet so many of us struggle with it without fully understanding why. In this episode, I explore:

  • Childhood & the Foundations of Belonging
  • How our early relationships shape our sense of belonging, the difference between authenticity and attachment, and what happens when that foundation is fractured.

    • How These Patterns Show Up in Adulthood
    • Struggles with fitting in vs. authentic belonging, fear of rejection, self-sabotage, and the coping mechanisms we develop—like people-pleasing or isolation.

      • Repairing & Rebuilding Belonging
      • Recognizing old narratives, healing from past wounds, and cultivating true belonging by embracing authenticity, building safe relationships, and re-parenting ourselves.

        If you’ve ever felt like you don’t truly belong, this episode will help you understand why—and how to start healing.

        HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME:

        Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. 

         

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