December 20, 2024

440: Milan A. - first call (2023)

43 minutes

🔸 The rebel wants me to be myself... too much?

🔹 Parts:

The rebel, strong, important to be myself, doesn’t like being told what to do, snowballing. Teenagery. Likes its job, but not pushing people away, and sad & angry about locking up parts when it wants freedom.

Trusts Milan, rather team up w cheerleader

The people pleaser, stays locked up by rebel.

Possible exile(s): feeling of being controlled, memories of a family member, 3 yo, felt small.

🎓 What I'd like to do differently:

Call recorded March '23.

Didn't want to be too challenging, I reigned in some of the more probing questions like “what does it mean by ‘being myself’”, is that the same as IFS-Self? If so… can there be too much? Philosophical stuff that may be answered in the process.
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