What does it really mean to grieve a pet—and how can we do it well? In this deeply moving episode, we talk with Koryn Greenspan, founder of The Parted Paw, about the often overlooked reality of pet loss and the profound emotional toll it takes. Koryn breaks down the distinctions between grief, mourning, and bereavement, and shares how anticipatory grief can offer a healthier path through the end-of-life process. We explore how disenfranchised grief silences many pet parents and why pet professionals need to show up better for their grieving clients. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever loved—and lost—a pet.

Main Topics

• Anticipatory grief and emotional prep

• Disenfranchised grief in pet loss

• Using the quality-of-life scale

• Supporting clients after a pet’s death

• Self-care and compassion fatigue for professionals

Main Takeaway: “Everyone’s grief is unique. People don’t owe you an explanation for their grief… It’s your job to show up for it in the best way that you can.”

As pet professionals, we often witness clients go through the heartbreak of losing a beloved companion. We don’t need the right words—we just need to show up. Whether that means a quiet moment, a handwritten note, or simply being present, your empathy matters. Grief isn’t linear, and it’s not our job to fix it—just to honor it. Let’s be the kind of people who show up.

About our guest:

Koryn Greenspan is a professional Certified Pet Loss Bereavement Specialist offering Pet Loss Counselling Services, Professional Dog Trainer, Pet Care and Business Advisor.

As the founder of The Parted Paw, one of the first pet loss bereavement support services in the country, she is committed to raising awareness about pet loss, disenfranchised grief, the support needed for people whose pets have passed, and helping workplaces foster empathy and understanding for grieving employees who are anticipating or currently grieving the loss of a beloved pet.

Links:

https://www.thepartedpaw.com

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https://www.tiktok.com/@thepartedpaw

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