Living with Heart: From Birth to Death

78 - Out of the Pit: Living in Recovery


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The Pitfalls of Leadership are descending steps, one connects to the other with predictable effects. 

 

Some leaders have referred to the descent as a “chain reaction.” 

 

The descent can be stopped at any time, with an intervention from others who the leader listens and healthily responds to, or a cry out from the leader in descent who is heard and responded to by others. 

 

The Five Pitfalls:

    1. Work becomes confused with one’s worth.
      • Performance begins to be valued more than one’s presence.
        • People become things. 
          • To be an example to others, the true self is isolated.
            • Secrets sap one’s passion and purpose. 
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              These pitfalls can destroy careers, friendships, reputations, marriages and families—unless one is freed from them. 

               

              Living in freedom from the Pitfalls is work. It is a daily activity and a lifestyle. 

               

              In the Pitfalls, we are driven by what we are running from. Essentially, we are running from: 

              1. Feelings, needs, desire, longings, and hope that expose our vulnerability;
              2. Telling the truth about our hearts that expresses our need of others;
              3. Trusting a process that we are not in control of, which expresses our distrust of God.
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                The daily activities that become the recovering leader’s lifestyle are:

                • Confession - the acknowledgment of my own healthy shame, and need of others and God.
                • Admission - the full awareness that I do not have control over life, and the more I attempt to get control, the more unmanageable my life becomes.
                • Surrender - practicing believing and trusting that God has control; therefore, I give myself to God and the way God works, because my attempt to control life hasn’t worked.
                • Acceptance - the practice of turning my heart and life over to God who cares for me, knowing that whatever happens, God wants good for me because I am loved.
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                  Daily activities have to be practiced until we see the results and their benefits; 

                  The daily practices become a lifestyle. 

                  The leader eventually desires for his/her life to be different and adopts the new lifestyle because it is “better” than what life was like in the Pitfalls.

                   

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