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In this episode, Jessica joins me today to share her candid and powerful birth story from Northern Lights Eastern Maine Medical Center in Bangor.

Jessica opens up about discovering her pregnancy during 2020, the struggles of being labeled as a high-risk pregnancy due to being overweight, and the cascade of pregnancy interventions that she was faced with as a result.  Jessica began experiencing some blood pressure issues during the last month of her pregnancy, and with that reasoning she was scheduled for an induction at 38 weeks. 

She recalls that the whole pregnancy was "not great, but that was when things started getting even worse, it was when I went in for my induction".   She describes her induction which ended in a cesarean that she was not numb for.  She also shares about her experience with a very serious complication two days postpartum.   Jessica's account paints a vivid picture of her journey, offering a raw and honest look into her birth experience. 

The conversation doesn't end at birth. Jessica bravely shares the emotional and physical aftermath of her traumatic experience, discussing her struggle with PTSD and the additional hurdles she faced when she was denied a hysterectomy due to her age. 

Jessica emphasizes the crucial role of therapy and a supportive network in her healing process. This episode is a poignant reminder of the resilience required to navigate birth trauma and the importance of understanding and support in postpartum recovery.

Join us for a heartfelt discussion that sheds light on the mental and physical hurdles mothers face, and the importance of a compassionate community in overcoming them.

Occasionally on the podcast we hear powerful stories that shed light on the challenges, the unexpected turns, and the emotional aftermath of a birth story that does not go as you imagined it would.  I believe it's important to create a safe space for these narratives, to raise awareness about the benefits of undisturbed birth, and to support those who have gone through difficult birth experiences.

To all the pregnant mothers listening, I encourage you to assess your emotional readiness for today's episode.  If hearing stories of birth trauma is not what you need at the moment... please skip this episode and the next one..  and join me again in episode 86 for an empowering birth story. 

For those who have recently experienced birth trauma yourself, I want you to know that you are not alone.  I see you, I hear you, and I am here to support you. 

I offer a virtual service designed specifically for mothers who need to process their birth stories. 

My Birth Debrief Sessions over zoom provide a safe and confidential space to explore your emotions, find healing, and work through any lingering feelings of disappointment, fear, or grief. 

I am an experienced birth professional and I am ready to listen, offer guidance, and help you navigate the complexities of your birth experience.  If you're interested in scheduling a Birth Debrief Session click HERE
or head over to my website for all the details.  https://www.mymainebirth.com

Remember, your story matters, and I'm here to support you every step of the way.  Together we can heal, grow, and find strength in our shared experiences. 

Thank you for joining me today on MyMaine Birth and remember to take care of yourself and each other.  And as always, let's keep the conversation going!  You can always message me over on social media, you can find me on Facebook and Instagram @mymainebirth