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* Porno chic = a real moment in American culture

* A NYT column introduces a great question about sex, but the advice? zzzzz

* Jesse Singal on sex drive differences between men and women

* That time Sarah’s boyfriend lost his attraction for her

* How often do married people actually have sex?

* The problem with sex statistics: Everyone lies

* Could extramarital sex be a marital aid?

* Why is Nancy glowing?

* New Depp-Heard docu-series is like a greatest-hits record of a six-month trial

* Nerds + fandom in one bang-up (and short) documentary

* Tell us why we should do a live show in your town!