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9. What is Pain + How Do We Heal? Pt. I


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Welcome to Part 1 of a series on inner healing. The goal of life in Christ is ABUNDANT LIFE — life and life abundantly (John 10:10). But life offers us pain and disappointment that can leave us feeling shame, anxiety, depression, overwhelm, etc. In this multi-part episode, I want to unpack and demystify pain and inner healing in a tangible, practical, and applicable way. 

HIGHLIGHTS:

What Are We Being Healed From? 

Life’s Trials: In this life, you will have trials of many kinds (John 16:33). People aren’t perfect, and pain happens, often unnoticed.

Facing Pain: Healing means facing the things in our lives that have caused pain and refusing to let the effects of pain dictate our life’s course.

Effects of Unhealed Pain:

  • Feelings: Disappointment, shame, guilt, anxiety, depression, hopelessness, powerlessness.
  • Beliefs: “I’m not good enough,” “It’ll always be this way,” “It doesn’t matter how hard I try.”
  • Behaviors: Addictions, people-pleasing, codependency, escaping behaviors, dissociating, and disconnection from people.
  • Benefits of Healing: When we heal, we can spend our energy showing up to our life instead of just surviving in it.

    What Are We Healing From?

    1. Childhood Pain:
    • Causes: Neglect, abuse, bullying, rejection, loneliness, emotional abandonment.
  • Impact: Childhood experiences shape adult behaviors.
  • Signs: Trust issues, emotional dysregulation, low self-esteem, codependency, people-pleasing, self-sabotage.
  • Healing helps us move from merely surviving to truly living. Remember, the goal is ABUNDANT LIFE. Stay tuned for Part 2, where I’ll dive deeper into more areas of our life where we can experience pain and practical and actionable healing practices and techniques.


    HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME:

    Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching.

     

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