Struggle Care

91: When Kinky Sex is the Healthier Option with Sunny Megatron

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Please be advised that today’s episode is adult content; it’s not safe for work or little ears. We are talking all things kink with Sunny Megatron, a clinical sexologist, kink educator, and consultant. Join us for an interesting and informative conversation!


Show Highlights:


  • Understanding what kink really is—and how it measures up to the assumptions we have
  • The difference between kink and a fetish
  • Sunny explains “kink done well” and “kink done wrong”
  • The concept of “aftercare” in kink
  • Societal messages around sex that lead to shame, embarrassment, and an overall lack of open communication
  • We don’t understand our sexual motivations.
  • Stigma busting around sexual assault, trauma, and fantasy
  • Red flags to look for in sexual power dynamics
  • The slippery slope of fear (of what kink may lead to)
  • Problems in kink relationships are the SAME problems in “vanilla sex” relationships! 


    • Resources and Links:

    Connect with Sunny Megatron: Website, TikTok, and Instagram 

    Connect with KC: Website, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook

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