Jess & Brandon try one of the “Lovers Inquiries” from her new book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay co-authored by Marla Renee Stewart. They discuss ways to eroticize daily interactions within the context of a busy lifestyle and work through the prompts in the “Why do I love you again?” activity. Have a listen and try it out yourself using these prompts to guide you:

What was the first thing you noticed about your lover?

What first attracted you to your lover?

On your first date, what excited you most?

On your first date, what made you nervous?

Do you remember the first time you kissed? What was it like?

Do you remember the first time you had sex? What was it like?

What is one awkward intimate moment you wouldn’t want to relive, but are able to laugh about now?

Can you remember the wildest/hottest sex you ever had? What made it so memorable?

How has your partner changed for the better since you first met?

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A Conversation for Lovers

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You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jasser podcast sacks and relationship advice you can use tonight Welcome to the sex with Dr. Just podcast I'm your co host Brandon. Where here with my lovely other half Dr Jess? How's it going? I'm good. How are you? I'm hanging in there? I have good days bad days these days. I feel like I have good hours. Sobat hours. Yeah I think that's the way it goes during this whole lockdown or semi lockdown pandemic. Yeah it's It's interesting because you can hear in people's voices that were just more emotionally exhausted. Yea I feel that way for sure and I think the people that I work with feel the same way too and sometimes unwilling to admit to how they're feeling like people that are generally very positive. It's hard to get on the phone with somebody. How are you doing? Oh I'm great and for it to sound real. Yeah I think that's a struggle for me because I'm like always up always is always positive. Always happy every day. I wake up and I'm like oh I love life and I don't mean to be that way but these days I'm waking up and I'm like I don't really want to engage engage today as I walk up the stairs with your coffee. I know that is what is keeping me keeping me happy. Yeah so again. We talked about this before. There's this feeling of being really conflicted where we know how lucky we are. But we're still super frustrated and you and I were chatting about where we'd want to travel when this is all over and and again that's just like such a massive privilege to even get to think about that but I was saying to you. There's no where I WANNA go specifically. I JUST WANNA work. I WanNa go where I was supposed to go to work and in May I was so lucky that I was going all over Europe in in Romania in Portugal and Spain and elsewhere and so those are all canceled and I get it of course not you know not a victim in this but I just want to work again. I just wanted to do what I normally do. And it's weird to do it over zoom. Yeah it it.