A Drink With a Friend

A Drink With a Friend

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  • "A stewardship of the past"

    Tsh talks with historian and homeschooling mom Dixie Dillon Lane about homeschooling education, teaching history — imagination is our greatest tool! — leaning into the seasons, writing and reading books, and more.

    * Dixie’s Substack newsletter, The Hollow

    * Dixie on Hearth & Field

    * When Teaching Children History, Embrace Imagination

    * From Darkness to Light: Reclaiming Advent

    * The Longest Johns

    * Mingulay Boat Song

    * Walk the Camino de Santiago with Dixie

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * Join Tsh’s next pilgrimage: The Rhine River 2025

    * Recommended reads

    * Buy a round of drinks



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    1 hr 1 min
  • "It gives meaning to survival..."

    Tsh and her good friend Sarah Mackenzie kick off January by working through a few topics from Tsh’s annual new year reflection questions… It’s a good conversation.

    * Sarah’s businesses: Read-Aloud Revival and Waxwing Books

    * Tsh’s New Year Reflection Questions

    * The Hallow app

    * The Fulfillment of All Desire, by Ralph Martin

    * I Believe in Love, by Jean C. J. d’Elbée

    * Table for Two, by Amor Towles

    * Thinking, Fast and Slow, by Daniel Kahneman

    * Jon Acuff & Meg Meeker: their conversation on parenting

    * Introduction to the Spiritual Life, by Brant Pitre

    * The Three-Minute Reset podcast

    * Create Your Rule of Life self-paced workshop

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * Join Tsh’s next pilgrimage: The Rhine River 2025

    * Recommended reads

    * Buy a round of drinks



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    38 min
  • A Rule of Life is a good idea

    A short little reminder-announcement: creating your own personal Rule of Life is both a time-tested practice and a great way to kick off a new year (but also, it’s good any time of year) — and I’ve got a little tool to guide you in the process of creating your own. Thousands use it every year… Listen in for details.

    (Regular episodes resume next week!)

    * Create Your Rule of Life self-paced workshop

    * Rule of St. Benedict

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * Join Tsh’s next pilgrimage: The Rhine River 2025

    * Recommended reads

    * Buy a round of drinks



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    5 min
  • "What kind of bookshop are we gonna be?"

    Tsh chats with Shawn Smucker, novelist and co-owner (with his wife) of the indie bookstore Nooks. They talk about his first foray into running a bookshop, what it’s like to connect with local regulars, how to decide which books to stock, how to juggle bookshop-keeping with writing (or not), and other sundry regarding the delights and challenges of keeping the lights on in the neighborhood book nook.

    * Shawn & Maile Smucker’s bookshop: Nooks

    * Shawn’s newsletter: The Courage to Live It

    * Shawn’s books

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * Ned Bustard

    * I Cheerfully Refuse, by Leif Enger

    * The Secret History, by Donna Tartt

    * The Witch Elm, by Tana French

    * Slow Productivity, by Cal Newport

    * The Bee Sting, by Paul Murray

    * This is Happiness, by Niall Williams

    * The Overstory, by Richard Powers

    * I Hate to See That Evening Sun Go Down, by William Gay

    * Recommended reads

    * Become a supporting subscriber

    * Buy a round of drinks

    * Join the next pilgrimage on the Rhine River



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    53 min
  • "That's my native wilderness"

    Tsh chats with Jonathan Rogers, author and podcast host. It’s the twentieth anniversary of Jonathan’s first middle-grade fiction series, The Wilderking Trilogy, so they talk about what makes good children’s literature, why we all love stories, and how our native homelands affect our perspective of stories… He loves swamps.

    * Jonathan Roger’s podcast: The Habit

    * Jonathan’s middle-grade series, The Wilderking Trilogy

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * Willie Pearl band

    * The Rabbit Room

    * Recommended reads

    * Become a supporting subscriber

    * Buy a round of drinks

    * Join the next pilgrimage on the Rhine River



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    44 min
  • "It's not Christmas yet"

    Tsh chats again with Faith Moore, author of Christmas Karol and podcaster of Storytime for Grownups, about holiday traditions, kicking off Christmas, and ways to make reading A Christmas Carol accessible. She’s got a new series to read alongside with you this Advent!

    * Faith Moore’s podcast: Storytime for Grownups

    * Faith’s novel, Christmas Karol

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * Tsh’s Advent book, Shadow & Light

    * A Christmas Carol, by Charles Dickens

    * Our Tempestuous Day: A History of Regency England, by Carolly Erickson

    * Winter Fire, by Ryan Whitaker Smith

    * Recommended reads

    * Become a supporting subscriber

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    * Join the next pilgrimage on the Rhine River



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    52 min
  • "I'm so ready for Advent"

    Tsh chats with Danielle Bean about Advent, particularly why they both love this old, time-worn season found at the start of the liturgical calendar. They also get into parenting, grandparenting, making time for solo reflection, and ways to incorporate their family's Advent traditions into ordinary family life.

    * Danielle Bean’s newsletter: Girlfriends After Hours

    * Danielle’s Advent series, Look + Listen

    * Tsh’s 101 primer: A Brief What, Why, & How of Advent

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * Tsh’s Advent book, Shadow & Light

    * Anna Karenina, by Leo Tolstoy

    * Recommended reads

    * Become a supporting subscriber

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    * Join the next pilgrimage on the Rhine River



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    41 min
  • "Slow down & pay attention"

    Tsh chats again with one of her favorite people, Sarah Mackenzie — this time about books (as always), good storytelling, podcasts and newsletters they’re currently enjoying, holiday books they’re looking forward to, her annual Christmas School, and more.

    * Sarah’s businesses: Read-Aloud Revival and Waxwing Books

    * Read-Aloud Revival’s 2024 Christmas School

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * How Stories Happen

    * Song Exploder

    * Present Over Perfect, by Shauna Niequist

    * Jess Pan’s Substack, It’ll Be Fun, They Said

    * Impossible Creatures, by Katherine Rundell

    * Focusmate

    * Little Christmas Carol

    * Mr. Dickens & His Carol, by Samantha Silva

    * Christmas Karol, by Faith Moore

    * The Man Who Invented Christmas

    * Recommended reads

    * Become a supporting subscriber

    * Buy a round of drinks

    * Join the next pilgrimage on the Rhine River



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    46 min
  • "We are the weirdos"

    Tsh chats with her old friend Erin Loechner about unplugging as a lifestyle choice, both for us as adults and for our kids. She’s got kids a few years younger than Tsh’s, but they’re both in lock-step with their ethos of letting their kids be kids. They get into the rebellion of not giving kids smartphones, why it’s important for local friends to do this together en-masse, and how to live fully without instagram, incessant smartphone-checking, and other forms of swimming against the current.

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * Erin Loechner’s blog: Design for Mankind

    * Erin’s latest book: The Opt-Out Family

    * Opt-out resources

    * The Anxious Generation, by Jonathan Haidt

    * Recommended reads

    * Become a supporting subscriber

    * Buy a round of drinks

    * Join the next pilgrimage on the Rhine River



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    53 min
  • "Specialize in being you"

    Tsh chats with her new friend Regina Gravrok, who was homeschooled K-12 and then (recently-ish) got a degree in English at Hillsdale College. Her passion for education and literature led naturally into a position at Classic Learning Test — in this chat they talk about the gift of a traditional, individualized education, the beauty and power of reading great books, and how to foster an environment at home that loves to learn.

    * Tsh’s newsletter: The Commonplace

    * Tsh’s books, trips, & Rule of Life

    * The Classic Learning Test — register for any test at 25% off with the code COMMONPLACE

    * Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, by Annie Dillard

    * Hillsdale College

    * The Consolation of Philosophy, by Boethius

    * Sagrada Familia Basilica

    * Recommended reads

    * Become a supporting subscriber

    * Buy a round of drinks

    * Join the next pilgrimage on the Rhine River

    art: Young Woman with a Book, by Edouard Manet (1875)



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    1 hr 16 min

About A Drink With a Friend

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Formative books, formative places. A Drink With a Friend is a seasonal conversation series with writer Tsh Oxenreider—friends, new and old, chatting about what's shaped them: the book they loved as a…

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