You’re Growing, Even If It Doesn’t Feel Like It Yet

Do you ever feel like you're doing the work, but still stuck in place?

Like no matter how much effort you give, you're not seeing results fast enough?

This episode is for the quiet growers, the inner healers, and the high-achievers who constantly downplay their progress.

Inside this episode of A Fresh Start, we’re unpacking:

What real growth actually looks like (spoiler: it’s not always obvious)

How to recognize emotional and behavioral progress

The common mistake high-achievers make that keeps you feeling “not enough”

Journal prompts to help you finally give yourself credit

If you’ve been feeling like your efforts aren’t paying off, this is your reminder that growth is happening, even when you can’t see it yet.

Press play, and let’s walk through this together.

XO,

Shannon

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2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

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If you’ve been feeling behind, stuck, or like your small efforts aren’t adding up - this episode is here to remind you: you’re doing better than you think.

Whether you're working on healthier habits, healing your mindset, or just trying to keep up with life - it’s easy to miss the progress that’s happening underneath the surface. Especially when comparison, self-doubt, or burnout creep in.

This episode is a permission slip to pause, reflect, and recognize how far you’ve come. Because you might be showing up, growing, and thriving more than you realize.

In this episode, we’ll talk about:

Why high-achievers often miss their own progress

How to notice (and celebrate) the small things that are actually big wins

A simple mindset reframe to reduce self-doubt

The one phrase to keep in your back pocket for tough days

XO,

Shannon

Resources: https://stan.store/shannonmarqueta 

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/afreshstartcommunity

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta  

Email: [email protected]

2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

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Feeling stuck or unsure if your hard work is even making a difference? You’re not alone.

In this episode, we’re talking about the quiet signs of personal growth that most people overlook—especially high-achievers who are used to measuring progress in productivity or perfection.

If you’ve been doing the work but still asking, “Why don’t I feel like I’m getting anywhere?”—this is the episode for you. We’ll walk through real, invisible signs that you’re growing, even when your life doesn’t look all that different yet.

Whether you’re trying to stick to healthier habits, build self-confidence, or simply keep going when motivation fades, this is your reminder that you are moving forward—even when it’s subtle.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

XO,

Shannon

Resources: https://stan.store/shannonmarqueta 

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/afreshstartcommunity

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta  

Email: [email protected]

2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

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Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw

External progress is often an overflow of internal work.

People will congratulate and celebrate your achievements, often as if it happened quickly, when in reality it took years of commitment and dedication to growth and consistency that no one ever saw or recognized.

Invisible progress are the intangibles. How you handle your attitude, commitment, leadership, responses.

Success is far more than monetary. Define your own timeline and remember that the progress behind-the-scenes may be quiet, but it's steadiness will speak volumes in time.

XO,

Shannon

Resources: https://stan.store/shannonmarqueta 

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/afreshstartcommunity

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta  

Email: [email protected]

2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

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Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw

Do you ever get discouraged working a goal?

Have you felt like it's impossible and even asked, 'What's the point?'

Goals take immense focus and commitment. It's often not the goal itself that's hard, but who we're required to become in the process.

The messy middle is just that, a defining season that shapes and forms us into what the goal and our future require.

Staying committed in this season is one of the best things you can do to become and achieve all you're working towards.

Let's talk about how to stay motivated even when it's hard.

XO,

Shannon

Resources: https://stan.store/shannonmarqueta 

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/afreshstartcommunity

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta  

Email: [email protected]

2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

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Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw

Do you tend to notice "wins," or only areas for improvement?

It's important to celebrate the progress, not just critique the imperfections.

Every time you celebrate and recognize your progress and wins, you strengthen your inner voice's dialogue to speak positively and encouragingly.

Let's talk about some simple ways to do this regularly so you continue to set yourself up for success!

XO,

Shannon

Resources: https://stan.store/shannonmarqueta 

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/afreshstartcommunity

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta  

Email: [email protected]

2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw

Do you ever feel shame, disappointment, or even failure when you don't achieve something you set out to do? Is this usually self-inflicted or caused by others?

We are all motivated differently, but focusing on our values and reasons behind the goal for fuel and focus will always be more effective in our success short and long-term than shame-based motivation.

Make it clear why you're establishing the goal, then track your progress and celebrate along the way!

XO,

Shannon

Resources: https://stan.store/shannonmarqueta 

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/afreshstartcommunity

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta  

Email: [email protected]

2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

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Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw

Do you have an "all or nothing" mentality?

Do you constantly feel pressure to perform and be perfect to prove your worth?

I want to encourage you that doing your best doesn't mean doing it all. Every small step you take is worth celebrating.

The consistency and self-discipline you are instilling is one of the greatest habits!

You are worth the effort and showing up for, protect your peace and keep going.

XO,

Shannon

Resources: https://stan.store/shannonmarqueta 

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/afreshstartcommunity

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta  

Email: [email protected]

2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw

Small habits count, but how do you do them?

You don't do them by trying to overhaul your whole life all at once.

Identify your anchor habits, be realistic, aware, and intentionally consistent to be successful.

Let's talk about how to make small habits stick while also avoiding burnout.

XO,

Shannon

Resources: https://stan.store/shannonmarqueta 

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/afreshstartcommunity

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta  

Email: [email protected]

2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw

Episode Mentions:

Darren Hardy - The Compound Effect (Book): https://amzn.to/4klaxmg 

James Clear - Atomic Habits (Book): https://amzn.to/3nfUvy7

Do you ever feel frustrated that you're not further along?

Do you ever feel like you're constantly working and showing up, but don't see or notice the progress?

Don't give up. Your seemingly small efforts aren't insignificant. Your consistency will compound over time, you're further than you think.

Keep going.

XO,

Shannon

Resources: https://stan.store/shannonmarqueta 

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/afreshstartcommunity

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta  

Email: [email protected]

2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist

Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw

Episode Mentions:

Darren Hardy - The Compound Effect (Book): https://amzn.to/4klaxmg