A Million Other Choices

Today’s case is one of the most unusual I’ve ever covered—and honestly, one that sounds almost too strange to be true.

In May of 2015, Martin Duram was found shot to death inside his home in Sand Lake, Michigan. His wife, Glenna Duram, was discovered nearby with a gunshot wound to the head… still alive.

At first glance, it looked like a tragic murder-suicide attempt.

But almost immediately… things didn’t add up.

The scene raised more questions than answers.

The financial struggles.

The history of fraud and deception.

And a marriage that, behind closed doors, was anything but stable.

And then… there was the parrot.

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In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most uncomfortable and fascinating corners of true crime psychology — the women who idolize, marry, defend, and obsess over violent killers.

From Ted Bundy receiving love letters during trial… to Richard Ramirez attracting devoted fans despite openly describing horrific crimes… to Charles Manson’s lasting influence decades later… this phenomenon has existed for far longer than most people realize.

We’ll talk about hybristophilia, trauma bonding, fantasy relationships, celebrity culture, manipulation, media influence, and the psychology behind attraction to dangerous men. We’ll also explore the important difference between curiosity, fascination, and outright romantic obsession.

Because honestly… everyone jokes about “loving true crime”… until somebody starts mailing wedding proposals to a serial killer.

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In 1978, Bulgarian writer and journalist Georgi Markov was walking across Waterloo Bridge in London when he felt what he described as a small prick in his leg. Within days, he was dead.

What followed would uncover one of the most bizarre and chilling methods of assassination ever documented—an attack carried out in broad daylight, using something as ordinary as an umbrella.

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Dorothy was young, kind, and by all accounts, trusting. She had just begun building a life for herself — one that was finally starting to belong to her.

But behind the scenes, there was someone who believed that her success, her body, and even her future… belonged to him.

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Everyone has heard of Scotland Yard.

It's become synonymous with detectives, murder investigations, and some of history's most infamous criminal cases—from Jack the Ripper to modern forensic investigations.

But here's the question almost nobody asks...

Why is it called Scotland Yard when it's actually in England?

The answer goes back hundreds of years and involves medieval royalty, Scottish diplomats, the creation of London's Metropolitan Police, and one man whose ideas completely transformed modern policing.

In this episode of Let's Talk About Murder, we're stepping away from a single murder case to explore the fascinating history behind the world's most famous police organization. We'll uncover how Scotland Yard got its unusual name, why officers became known as "Bobbies," how detectives evolved from a controversial idea into a cornerstone of criminal investigations, and how one small street in London became one of the most recognizable names in law enforcement.

Whether you're a true crime fan or simply love unusual pieces of history, this story explains why the words "Scotland Yard" still carry so much weight nearly 200 years later.

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Why did Canada abolish the death penalty?

And why has it never returned — even after some of the country’s most horrific murders?

In this episode of Let’s Talk About Murder, we explore the history of capital punishment in Canada, the final executions, the political battle to end it, wrongful conviction fears, extradition issues, and the psychological and ethical arguments that still divide people today.

We’ll also look at infamous Canadian murder cases that reignited the debate, how Canada’s justice system changed after abolition, and why this issue remains one of the most emotionally charged conversations in criminal justice.

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The case that became one of the most famous “haunted house” stories in the world — but before all of that… there were real people.

On November 13, 1974, six members of the DeFeo family were found murdered inside their home in Amityville, New York. What followed would become a media frenzy — books, movies, and decades of paranormal claims.

But this episode isn’t about ghosts.

This is about the DeFeo family — who they were, what was happening inside that house long before that night, and what we actually know about the murders of

Ronald DeFeo Sr., Louise DeFeo, and their four children.

We’re going to walk through:

The family dynamics and tensions leading up to the murders

The timeline of what happened inside the house

The investigation and Ronald DeFeo Jr.’s changing stories

The trial and what evidence actually showed

And how this case became something very different from the truth

Because somewhere along the way… the real story got buried under something much louder.

And as always, we’re going to bring it back to the victims — because they deserve to be remembered for more than a headline.

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A 19-year-old young woman whose life was cut tragically short after reaching out online, looking for connection… and finding someone who would ultimately take everything from her.

This is not just a story about what happened that night.

It’s about who Natalie was… the struggles she was facing… and the moments leading up to a decision that placed her in the path of someone dangerous.

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Today we’re talking about a case that, on the surface, might seem like a sudden act of violence…

but when you look a little closer, there are often signs — small moments, shifts in behavior — that tell a different story.

This is the case of Clayton Otis Jacquard.

In this episode, we’re going to walk through what happened that night, but also step back and look at the bigger picture — because cases like this don’t always come out of nowhere.

We’ll talk about:

• the events leading up to the crime
• the dynamics between the people involved
• how quickly things escalated
• and what we know from the investigation and court proceedings

And as always… we’re going to keep the focus where it belongs.

Because behind every case like this are real people — real lives — that don’t get the same attention as the headlines.

This is a story about escalation, accountability, and the kind of violence that feels sudden… but often isn’t.

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Today we’re talking about something that makes people deeply uncomfortable… and honestly, it should.

Parricide — when a child kills their parent.

It’s one of those crimes that people tend to react to immediately… with anger, disbelief, sometimes even dismissal.

Because the assumption is simple: how could anyone do that?

But when you start to look closer…

it’s not always simple.

In this episode, we’re stepping back from the headlines and looking at the reality behind these cases. Not to excuse them — but to understand them.

We’ll talk about:

• what parricide actually is, and how often it happens
• the different patterns behind these cases
• the role of abuse, coercion, and long-term trauma
• when mental illness becomes a factor
• and the cases that don’t seem to fit any explanation at all

Because while some of these stories involve unimaginable violence…

others involve something we don’t talk about enough.

What happens when home isn’t safe?

And how does that change the way we see these cases?

This isn’t an easy topic — but it’s an important one.

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